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The paradox of love
The main problem of love that some of the partners are often not mature.
If you are a mature person psychologically, spiritually, you do not fall in love with the child. In the mature man enough integrity to be alone. When mature man gives his love - it just gives it feels gratitude for what you have accepted it, not vice versa. He does not expect that you'll be thankful for it, he does not need your gratitude. He thanks you for what you took his love.
When two mature people love each other, there is one of the great paradoxes of life, one of the most beautiful phenomena: they are together, but at the same time immensely alone. They together to such an extent that almost a whole, but does not destroy their unity identity - in fact, it increases it, they are more individual.
Two mature persons in love help each other to become free. There is no policy, no diplomacy, no attempt to subjugate another. How can you try to subdue the man you love? Just think about it - a kind of submission of hatred, anger, hostility. How can you even think about how to subdue the man you love?
Their personality do not mix - they are amplified.
Osho "Maturity»
If you are a mature person psychologically, spiritually, you do not fall in love with the child. In the mature man enough integrity to be alone. When mature man gives his love - it just gives it feels gratitude for what you have accepted it, not vice versa. He does not expect that you'll be thankful for it, he does not need your gratitude. He thanks you for what you took his love.
When two mature people love each other, there is one of the great paradoxes of life, one of the most beautiful phenomena: they are together, but at the same time immensely alone. They together to such an extent that almost a whole, but does not destroy their unity identity - in fact, it increases it, they are more individual.
Two mature persons in love help each other to become free. There is no policy, no diplomacy, no attempt to subjugate another. How can you try to subdue the man you love? Just think about it - a kind of submission of hatred, anger, hostility. How can you even think about how to subdue the man you love?
Their personality do not mix - they are amplified.
Osho "Maturity»
