Vitaly went to his parents and took his son with him, no one expected what would happen.

Sometimes problems and quarrels, especially in young families, arise seemingly out of the blue. For example, I personally heard the story when the couple quarreled a few days after the wedding over when to take out the garbage, because in the family of the wife did it in the evening, and the husband in the morning. In today’s history, we have come to the fore. socialization of the childHis relationship with his grandparents. So what happened?



Parents need to understand that this is an extremely important aspect of the upbringing of their child. The child needs to communicate regularly with peers, but do not forget about the family. It so happened that in this story it was the boy’s lack of contact with his grandparents that led to a huge family quarrel.



On the other hand, perhaps the relatives needed to take the initiative on their part. Let's figure out who's right and who's wrong. We may have to have a lot of discussion to come up with an answer.

Hysteria after the long-awaited meeting Vitaly and Elena have been married for 5 years, and their son Serezhenka recently turned four. One morning Vitaly told his son that they were going to their grandparents. He was very happy because he loved spending time with her. But as soon as they drove to the house of relatives, the baby cried.



The thing is that Sergey thought that they would go to Grandma Svetlana, his mother's mother. They ended up at the father’s house. My grandmother Masha welcomed guests. But the grandson, whom she had not seen for so long, threw a tantrum.



Seryozha did not even want to look at Grandma Masha. Moreover, when they tried to find out what happened, the child said terrible words. The boy said that He only has one grandmother.. As for this, he does not know her and does not want to come again.

After arriving home, Vitaly told about what happened to his wife and accused her of it. The man, and with him and his relatives were sure that Elena set her son against her husband’s parents. But you can understand that it is difficult to get to them, and parents can not come themselves, the old ones already.



At the same time, Grandma Masha and Grandpa Misha regularly conveyed greetings to Seryozh and gave expensive gifts. The father tried to explain to the boy that he had two grandmothers. He seemed to understand. But in practice it was different. The child does not want to see Vitali’s parents. And here clearly did not do without the intervention of the wife.

The woman strongly disagrees with the accusations made by her husband. She never said a bad word about her mother-in-law. Just, her parents really live closer, her mother regularly comes to visit, spends time with Sergei, plays with him, takes her for walks so that the young couple can be alone.



Vitali’s parents are only two years older. They live an hour by bus. You could see your grandson more often. When they come on holidays, let them not sit down at the table at once, but play with Sergey. They never found time to go with the boy to the amusement park or just walk.



Each spouse is sure that he is right in this story. Because of this, more and more quarrels arise in the family. What do you think about that? Whose argument do you think is more convincing? Be sure to share your opinion, we will be interested to read.