Hungry student forgot to pay for a bottle of kefir, just picked it up and walked out of the store, his parents' reaction is startling

Adolescence is the most difficult for both the child and the parents. Many people are unable to cope with the pressures of society. Various problems come out. For example, parents notice that the child is stealing. Of course, such facts can be seriously frightening, but this should be perceived not as something fatal, but as a difficulty that can be solved.

The child steals Kleptomania stalks not only children, but also adults. Children simply do not understand the material value of things and find it difficult to accept the fact that is own and foreign. Usually, people who suffer from this psychological disorder do not need things they steal. They like the process of acquiring someone else’s property.



Most often, children do not even realize that they are doing bad things. They need some positive emotions that are not received at home. There is no single and clear cause of kleptomania. However, psychologists often talk about the consequences of psychological trauma or even heredity.



Often children who steal things, Significantly deprived of attention and love. They do not feel the support of loved ones. Mom and dad don't give these guys enough warmth, care and communication. Through theft, many people try to attract attention. The child does not understand that he is doing something illegal and wrong. He only wants to attract the eyes of adults.



Why a child steals may be another reason – hyperprotection, bordering on excessive control. The child is under such an all-encompassing power of his parents that he tries to seize at least a little freedom. By stealing, he gains a kind of control. In no case should you scold a child or accuse him of what he does. Negative on your part will only make things worse. Just imagine: your son or daughter already has problems with trust, and then you give him aggression and evil words instead of love and help.



A teenager should see in his parents not bailiffs, but friends. Kleptomania is not a choice, but rather an ailment. Try not to provoke the child in this regard. Perhaps it is worth distracting a son or daughter through some hobby. A sports club would do well, for example.



Don't question the child. Most likely, he will not be able to give a clear answer and will not be able to explain his actions logically. The thing is, they have no logic. But it's worth talking about. It is necessary to try to explain how difficult it is to earn money and what rash actions can lead to. Do not neglect the help of specialists. Maybe you should find a good child therapist.



Life wisdom and editorial advice It is important to always be on the side of your child. It doesn't matter what he did. Love, attention and communication always help. It is worth remembering that many adults make mistakes, but we are not even talking about a fully formed mental person. Be kind and show compassion. Let your child know that everything can be fixed.