Loneliness scares people at any age, but there are no hopeless situations. Bashny.Net

Some people choose the path of loneliness consciously, but most single people did not want such a fate. Circumstances were not in their favor. Someone could not find the right person, and someone found him, but the loved one died earlier.

If earlier loneliness meant a difficult existence with an unambiguous quick end, now, in our computer age, this is not at all true. If you have money, you don’t have to share your life with someone. You can live on your own and enjoy the benefits of being alone. And they're not that few!



For example, you only have to be responsible for yourself. It's a little easier at home. You don’t need to take into account anyone’s interests when cooking, moving, or decorating your home. Absolute freedom is pleasant. Modern civilization functions so that with enough resources, a person can easily exist without a pair.



Perhaps it’s even better if you haven’t found your man in this big world. You don’t have to be with anyone just to not be alone. It is impossible to escape from loneliness in this way. It's inside us, and if you don't have the right person around you, it'll only get worse. Being alone in a relationship is much worse than being alone.

If you’re unlucky enough to find a good partner who fits your inner currents and looks the same way with you, it might be better to be alone for a while. To be happy, you don’t have to be in a relationship. Happiness can be found in friends, interesting hobbies, nature, work and even delicious food.

Refugees and loneliness In almost all circumstances in our time, being single is more or less comfortable. But now is the time of crisis. This is a period that should not have happened. Wartime puts everything upside down. Habitual things become something out of the ordinary. Unfortunately, loneliness is no exception to the rule.

Being alone in wartime is incredibly difficult. We are all scared and anxious right now. Many people feel lost and do not know what to do next. Hands drop after watching the news. Many have to leave their cities, quickly and quickly changing their place of residence.



Even in a couple, it's hard to get through. What do you do if you're single? It is difficult to describe the horror that lives in the hearts of lonely people. They face the same brutal military circumstances as everyone else. But they have to deal with it alone.

How can you help yourself if the war has caught you alone? First, it is very important to calm down and recover. Do not convince yourself that everything will be fine, or that nothing special is happening. No, it's a war, and you have to be ready for it. It is important to accept the new reality and live up to it.



Second, you have to accept that evacuating alone is hard. It's an undeniable fact. So you need to find someone to help you. It can be friends, relatives or even neighbors. Post a request on social media for help with the evacuation. Maybe someone you know is going to go abroad. Don’t be afraid to ask and search.



Vital wisdom and editorial advice There is nothing wrong with asking for help in this difficult time. Prepare for the fact that at first after moving can be uncomfortable. You're used to living alone, but most refugees are settled in groups. They’re usually family groups, but you’re probably living with strangers for a while.





It's not too pleasant, so try to prepare yourself mentally for it. Tell yourself this won't last long. List in your head, and even better write down the benefits of moving on paper. Write down even things that seem completely irrelevant to you now, for example, the opportunity to see another city, meet new people and so on. This will make it easier for you to accept your new life.

The path of loneliness is not easy, but you can definitely cope with any difficulties. Remember, even if you don’t have the right partner in your life, there are still people who care about you.