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In the life of the child will be a lot of grief, parents should always be on the side of the children.
Developing a child’s strengths is very important for all good parents. The main question is: How to be the best parent in the world. There are a couple of things you can’t avoid, and you shouldn’t. We'll talk about them today.
I remember very well some moments from my childhood that concerned the support of parents. These are probably the most unpleasant and bitter memories. All of them are connected with situations when my mother was not on my side, but on the side of my abusers. In childhood, there are various troubles, because children only learn to live in an adult harsh world and often there are conflicts.
Most often, such problems occur with other children or teachers at school. I remember my mother either sided with my opponents or never came to school. In those moments, I felt completely lonely and abandoned, I was probably 10 years old.
My mother’s slogan was always the phrase “If you can’t play or communicate with others, stay at home and don’t cause me problems.” But I was just learning how to connect with people, and I needed a good example that would show me all the features. qualitative socialization. My mother never tried to help me, but only blamed me when I was hurt, not knowing the situation.
The strongest side of the child should be his parents This behavior of the parents instilled in me a few bad habits. For example, for a long time I didn’t ask anyone for help, even when I needed to. I also had a period of isolation during which I I barely talked to anyone.. I had no friends, and I felt so alone. I was saving myself with books at the time.
I just want to convey to parents today that they always need to be on their child’s side. It is very important for your son or daughter to feel that they are not alone. No child deserves such feelings. It doesn't matter if he's right or not. At home, you can scold your child and talk to him about his problems.
However, with other people, it is always necessary to show that You're on your side.. The situation should never turn so that your son or daughter is against you and some other adult. Just imagine the desperation a child feels when facing two or even three angry adults with you in charge.
In the eyes of children who still see black-and-whiteYou're a traitor. Perhaps, over time, the child will realize that he was wrong, for example, hit a classmate or lied. He'll realize he's done something wrong, he'll have invaluable experience, and he'll forget about it. That his father was on the other side, He'll never forget.
Editorial makes it difficult to raise children. No one will argue with that. It’s hard because the key things are a good example and constant support. The first involves eternal self-control, and the second - complete return and lack of stinginess in their resources. Attention, love, patience, awareness... All these things are necessary to make your child grow up happy and without the mental problems that make life really unbearable in the modern world. A person can cope with anything, if his mind is healthy. A healthy mind starts with your parents.
I remember very well some moments from my childhood that concerned the support of parents. These are probably the most unpleasant and bitter memories. All of them are connected with situations when my mother was not on my side, but on the side of my abusers. In childhood, there are various troubles, because children only learn to live in an adult harsh world and often there are conflicts.
Most often, such problems occur with other children or teachers at school. I remember my mother either sided with my opponents or never came to school. In those moments, I felt completely lonely and abandoned, I was probably 10 years old.
My mother’s slogan was always the phrase “If you can’t play or communicate with others, stay at home and don’t cause me problems.” But I was just learning how to connect with people, and I needed a good example that would show me all the features. qualitative socialization. My mother never tried to help me, but only blamed me when I was hurt, not knowing the situation.
The strongest side of the child should be his parents This behavior of the parents instilled in me a few bad habits. For example, for a long time I didn’t ask anyone for help, even when I needed to. I also had a period of isolation during which I I barely talked to anyone.. I had no friends, and I felt so alone. I was saving myself with books at the time.
I just want to convey to parents today that they always need to be on their child’s side. It is very important for your son or daughter to feel that they are not alone. No child deserves such feelings. It doesn't matter if he's right or not. At home, you can scold your child and talk to him about his problems.
However, with other people, it is always necessary to show that You're on your side.. The situation should never turn so that your son or daughter is against you and some other adult. Just imagine the desperation a child feels when facing two or even three angry adults with you in charge.
In the eyes of children who still see black-and-whiteYou're a traitor. Perhaps, over time, the child will realize that he was wrong, for example, hit a classmate or lied. He'll realize he's done something wrong, he'll have invaluable experience, and he'll forget about it. That his father was on the other side, He'll never forget.
Editorial makes it difficult to raise children. No one will argue with that. It’s hard because the key things are a good example and constant support. The first involves eternal self-control, and the second - complete return and lack of stinginess in their resources. Attention, love, patience, awareness... All these things are necessary to make your child grow up happy and without the mental problems that make life really unbearable in the modern world. A person can cope with anything, if his mind is healthy. A healthy mind starts with your parents.
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