Modern education of children

Parents are starting. parenting Long before you start to feel like a person. Mom and dad invest a lot of physical and mental strength to the child grew up happy and successful.

A couple of decades ago, it was enough for a parent to know that the child was fed, dressed, shoeed, studied well and helped around the house. Society needed working hands and parents tried to prepare their child for this.

The realities are different today. The state cares less about young people, and therefore they should be more independent. And parents are trying to raise a child so that he was in demand in the modern labor market. There are many methods of education, but no one will say for sure which one is considered optimal.





DepositPhotos Modern education of children “Hopes of modern parents on the future” teachering It is difficult to call justified, because the school no longer solves its main tasks - to instill love for learning and help each student find themselves, says writer and TV presenter Andrei Maksimov.





DepositPhotos “The procedure for conducting the exam resembles a social experiment, the purpose of which is to do everything to make the child uncomfortable.” You're taken to an unfamiliar school, searched, handed over to someone else's teacher. Even the toilet is accompanied. This is a real act of the state’s struggle against children.”

“At school, absolutely different kids try to teach the same thing. And it's terrible. That's how we break children. Therefore, all the care for the upbringing of a child falls on the shoulders of his parents. But everything is not smooth here, continues Andrey Markovich.





“Parents often do not want to accept that their child is a completely different person with a different outlook on life. It is especially difficult to understand a mother, for whom the child is her flesh and blood. How can she see in the offspring of an independent person?

“Another mistake is that mom and dad underestimate their child, can not accept that he can understand something better than them. As a result, the child is always put before the fact, they say, we decided, do this. He is not taught to make his own choices and to analyse the consequences of decisions.”



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“The primary task of any parent is to raise a winning child. And for that, you just have to treat him like a person. Surprisingly, this does not happen in every family. The child's opinion should be important and the point of view should be worthy of attention.”

“Parents always say they want to raise a child happy. But do they remember that when they scold for bad grades? Do you remember not walking with friends? When parents love a child, but make him unhappy – it’s scary.





DepositPhotos: There is an opinion that an adult has more experience than a child. Experience in what? In suffering? In derailing your life? There are a lot of people who have lived to gray hair and have not developed a mind. And there are children who at an early age already adequately assess their capabilities.”

“The experience of parents may not guide, but only lead off the right path. Mom and dad are obliged to protect, have the right to help and support, can advise the child, but not lead him, — said Maximov.



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Mistakes in parenting They happen even to the most educated and successful parents, because no one is immune from mistakes. Another thing is that conscious people learn from mistakes, analyze relationships with children and derive ideal parenting rules for their family. Recently we talked about the rules of education Victoria Beckham adheres to.

Of course, an ordinary person who is not a world celebrity does not have many resources and opportunities, but with a competent approach, he can raise a successful and independent child. The main thing is not to go about stereotypes, but to be guided by common sense.