The daughter is getting divorced, but does not want to take the apartment from her husband

Why does divorce become a tragedy for parents? And why can life with an adult daughter and grandchildren seem unbearable to intelligent pensioners? That's what we're going to talk about today.

Do you have any idea what the heroine of today’s story will tell us? Feel free to share them in the comments!

In March, there was a big change in our family. Daughter, Ira, divorced her husband and moved to live with us. And not just one, but a whole bunch of young robbers.



The first couple of weeks we got along somehow, and then it all started hell. I love my grandchildren, but I wasn’t ready to live with them all the time. Irina so spoiled the small that they are now almost impossible to calm down. The daughter also forbids them to scold them when they cry. Says that my father and I with our cries and notations traumatize the fragile child psyche. Who would regret our psyche?



In general, as soon as the street finally broke down, my husband and I decided to take a vacation from these family vicissitudes. We packed up and gave up on the dacha. Fortunately, there is still a whole summer ahead to have time to rest from the noisy tricks and quarrels with her daughter.



I'm doing the garden now, my husband hit the gardening. Getting out of town was obviously a good idea. But one question haunts me: "What's next?" Winter in the country is not an option, there are no conditions for this. And to go home to these little daredevils, too, frankly, reluctant.



And the main thing I don’t understand in this situation is why my father and I have to suffer because my daughter can’t stand up for herself. Before the divorce, Ira and his former son-in-law lived together for 13 years and bought an apartment in marriage. From the very beginning I tell my daughter to submit to the division of property, take her share and live quietly, and she only brushes me off.



He says he has no right to claim that apartment. Like, the money for its purchase parents of the former spouse gave, which means it rightfully belongs to their family.



I think the daughter is wrong. After all, besides her and her ex-husband, there are also their common children, whose interests must also be taken into account. And if my father and I didn't have the opportunity to take them in, what would she do?

Who do you think is right, the mother or the daughter? What advice do you want to give our heroine?