What did the mother of a girl who was bullied by a classmate

I have to admit that sometimes I am struck by the cruelty of children. However, their inadequate parents are even more shocking. A school scandal can significantly affect a child’s psyche. That's why Mom and Dad need it. soberly assess such situations And support your child.

Svetlana Petrovna worked in the emergency room for many years. The next shift was coming to an end when she received a call from her daughter’s school saying she had hit her classmate. The woman was surprised, but outwardly remained calm. After finishing the required two hours, she arrived at school.



There she found her Eva, who, although she was crying, kept her back straight and sat calmly in the headmistress’s office. In the same office, Svetlana Petrovna saw a nervous headmistress, a guy with a scratch on his face and his outraged parents. The latter began to be grossly outraged as soon as the woman entered the office.



Working for a long time in the difficult environment of the emergency room, the woman often faced such tantrums. Quickly looking at the injured classmate Eva and finding that not so much and the victim, she demanded to explain what happened.



The school injustice A occurred as follows: Zhenya bullied Eva and insulted her in every way, but she did not react to the insults. Then he unbuttoned her bra from behind. The girl turned around and gave him two slaps. Right now, Jenny's parents. They tried to accuse Eve of cruel behavior. To his classmate. Eugene’s mother was filled with hysterical tears for more persuasiveness.



Svetlana Petrovna quickly assessed the situation and said:

"So you're trying to convince me that my 157cm girl could have offended your boyfriend in any way?" Are you crazy at all? I'm going to the police nursery right now and I'm going to report your son for harassment. Let’s see how you talk then.



Wife's mother is fast. Stopped her fake tantrum. and hissed at her husband. I heard something in the style of “I told you to understand this idiot.” She then dragged her son out of the headmistress's office, apologizing endlessly and promising that it would never happen again.



From the editor I admired the behavior of Svetlana Petrovna. For one thing, she didn't sink into tantrums and screams. Second, I immediately made a logical argument. And most importantly, it's by default. She was on the side of her child.. Only such parents can grow healthy and wise children. Children who value themselves and others. Children who can protect themselves and not succumb to social stereotypes.

What would you say to your daughter and her abuser in such a situation?