Signs that you are turning into an old man

Interesting, but senility People do not like to look in themselves. In the opinion of most, old age, especially mental rather than physical, comes somewhere closer to seventy or eighty years or so. Why? I am still young in spirit and body, and if anyone disagrees, he is probably just ignorant or has no taste.

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However, as practice shows, even a young physically healthy person can be a deep old man at heart. The reasons can be argued for a long time: genetics, some life situations, stress at work and so on. But that's the point. We suggest you to carefully consider 3 signs of old age, which are not so easy to notice in the first minutes of acquaintance.

First of all, it is worth saying that some scientists consider old age a disease. In some, it affects the body first, and then the mind. And most of them are. Sometimes, on the contrary, the mind is struck first. But, unfortunately, after that, the old age of the body comes quite quickly.



The signs of old age exist quite a lot and they can manifest themselves at almost any age. But we would like to focus on three main ones. By the way, the writer Anna Kipriyanova also believes that such signs are the place to be.

If a person really believes that everything that was done and invented before is really the best, and new things that came with progress are an ordinary dummy, you should think about it. And we mean not only technology, construction and cinema, but also music, fashion and even the political system. “Before it was better!” is the old man’s slogan.



Especially noteworthy are young, in general, people who even in modern technology find disadvantages. Internet? What do you know? We talked in person or on the phone, that was the time. Do cars drive faster and not break down? Yes, my "Zaporozhets" of real iron is made and you can buy a bucket for 100 rubles on a market day!

In this regard, a person is often simply not interested in progress, stuck at one point, only for one reason. It's a road to nowhere. Even really old people may be interested in something new as a hobby. If they're young at heart, of course.



This, by the way, is very often used by unclean employers, when the employee is fixated on one process. Perhaps it will even bring it to perfection in the end, but this is not such a big achievement, without development. Have you been working in the same place for a year? Why do you need to raise your salary, you can't do anything else, and you don't want to develop. Just like you did 8 years ago, don’t worry.

Another sign of internal aging is an emotional attachment to something that the brain perceives as truly its own, native. The brain is comfortable and pleasant to think only of the things it has dealt with in the past. That’s why people (physically and mentally) don’t even want to take a vacation at work. And why, because you still have to think about what to do.



The same applies to other people. It becomes difficult not to make new acquaintances, but in general to communicate even with old acquaintances or friends. Each time the “old man” will tell the same story, without even asking if it is interesting to the interlocutor.

And when the narrator is killed, he will become dissatisfied, because he does not need new information and is not interesting. Other people exist only to listen to the mental old man, to let him speak, and not to waste any more of his precious time. After all, he is in a hurry, his usual routine does not involve unexpected conversations.



This so-called “senile selfishness” is familiar to many who have dealt with it at least once.

Let's just drop the physical part. After all, we are talking about signs of old age in the mental, “brain” plan. At the moment, we want to look at romantic relationships in terms of platonic relationships.

As they say, “A relationship is a job for two.” Of course, there will always be a person who needs it, and it is safe to say that he is certainly young at heart. After all, romance is sudden emotions, courtship, manifestations of feelings. Only a person who has a thirst for life can feel this attraction.



The morally old individual does not have such a source of inner energy, he simply has nowhere to get it from. Therefore, it will be difficult for him to take away the chunks of time that he used to spend on everyday affairs and spend them on someone else. This is again a manifestation of the same selfishness.

And besides, to start a romantic relationship from scratch, it is necessary to somehow interest the other half on a moral level. To be interesting. And in most cases, it is not so easy to endure the same boring monologue every day. There are, of course, exceptions when the “old man” has become so expert in his element that he can even teach something. But -- is that romantic? More like free lectures or something.

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Let us dare to repeat that the signs of old age are actually much more. However, the ones that we gave you as an example, catch your eye, probably most often. So look at yourself in the mirror and think. If any of the above can be attributed to your usual habits, you need to change something. Place of work, residence. Or at least just start a developing and interesting hobby.

There is so much more interesting and beautiful in this world, why fixate on one thing and become decrepit from the inside? Develop and soon you will see how a younger person will look at you from the mirror with a cheerful smile on his lips.