From what fiancé daughter father was furious and banned the wedding

Wedding is one of the most long-awaited events in the life of any girl. This is not just a solemn holiday, but a serious step in the relationship, which can lead to other important decisions. For example, cross-country.



Perhaps not all parents will be able to accept such a rapid development. Moreover, mom or dad may not like the groom himself. What to do in such situations and How to build relationships with your closest relatives? This is our story today from life with an unbanal story.

When I told my parents about my fiancé, hell broke out at home. Dad was yelling that the wedding wasn't going to happen and I was crazy. I was in tears trying to understand why my father was so strong. The scandal ended with me just leaving home and not coming to sleep.

The thing is, I fell in love with a black guy. We met at university, and we both studied to be surgeons. Our love caught fire: I could not imagine a day without Samuel. I can't imagine how painful it was for him to hear what my dad said.



Thank you Mom for accepting my choice. I saw that she was really happy. Sam did everything he could to please his parents. He was polite and attentive, always ready to help. He is also a professional in his field. From the first year of university, he made plans for the future and confidently moved towards his goal.

"You're a mother!" You have to stop this now, stop this mess. Do everything so that this wedding did not happen! – heard my father’s cries from the kitchen. I tried to control myself, to convince my father. But he was unwavering.



I made the biggest decision of my life: to be married! Moreover, I began to plan to move to another country, because I knew that I could not live in the same city with my parents. Samuel was very supportive, but he never pushed me.

We had a modest soul wedding. The wedding my father didn't attend. He stopped talking to me and avoided any contact with my husband. Even when we left, Dad didn't come to see us. It hurt, but I did everything I could. It's his choice, and he lives with him.

It has been 5 years of our life together with my husband. During this time, I managed to give birth to two beautiful children and become a real keeper of the hearth. Samuel built a successful career and protected our family from any problems.



My mother came to us several times. In her grandchildren, she had no heart and was looking forward to our meeting. She often said she wanted us to come home at least once. To be honest, I really wanted to visit my parents.

It all happened suddenly. I wanted to surprise my mom and dad. That's what happened. “Hello, Father,” I said when I saw my father, and I cried. The children ran to hug their mother, and Samuel timidly extended his hand to his father. He greeted us, and an hour later showed his grandchildren his collection of tin soldiers and invited them to paint together.



© Freepik The whole evening there was a lump in the throat. I wanted to cry with happiness: will everything get better? At night I went out to the kitchen to drink water and found my father there. “Forgive me. Now I see I was wrong. You're really happy, your eyes are just glowing. There are not enough words in the world to atone for my guilt before you, the pope whispered and wept.

The next day, his father asked Sam to have a heart-to-heart talk. Until late at night, my mom and I sat in the kitchen waiting for our men to come back. Near midnight, the front door opened and two happy people appeared on the doorstep. They laughed and told us about their adventures.



The next morning, my dad said, “Next time, my mom and I are coming.” My heart finally thawed, and my soul became warm and joyful. Life seems to be getting better.”

The attitude of parents and their adult children does not always coincide. However, the happiness of the native child is much more important than stupid prejudices and stereotypes. We live in an ever-changing world where the color of a person’s skin and place of birth shouldn’t matter. What matters is what qualities you have.

We hope this story with a happy ending inspires you! Be sure to share your impressions in the comments. You might want to tell us a similar story. Looking forward to it!