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What to say to a mom who calls on Skype and asks to divorce her husband
Is it worth giving annoying advice to a daughter about her personal life, if she did not ask for it and is it possible to reconcile a mother-in-law and a son-in-law who have not communicated for years, because they do not tolerate each other in spirit? That's what the editorial board is about. "Site" He's offering to speculate today.
Igor and Lena have been living together for five years, and only a year ago the couple decided to seal their union officially. Immediately after the wedding, the young family moved to the capital. Money, as is often the case, the newlyweds had little, so that the couple rented a modest apartment, and in general lived without frills.
Lena's mother was initially against this marriage, let alone moving. Even while the couple huddled in her house, saving money for renting their own housing, Nadezhda Mikhailovna repeatedly reproached Igor that he was good for nothing. “You can’t really take care of the two of you now, but what will happen, how will the children appear?” the dissatisfied mother-in-law asked.
Igor only kept silent and counted the days until the cherished date, when he and Lena will finally be able to leave their father’s home and start a quiet family life together. What could he say? The guy himself understood that he was not in a position to come into conflict with his mother-in-law.
Now that the young people have taken the first step towards the realization of their dreams and were able to move to the capital, life has acquired a completely different color. Igor recently offered a higher-paying position, and debts on loans slowly began to decrease. Everything seemed to finally get better. But Nadezhda Mikhailovna could not leave the new family alone.
Now that she was a hundred miles away, she had no choice but to try to bring her to her senses through phone calls and Skype video calls. Nadezhda Mikhailovna knew perfectly well what time Igor returns from work and always called at this time. Instead of greeting, Lena’s mother in a shrill voice begged her daughter to divorce Igor. Like, while there are no children, she can find a better party.
And one day, the mother-in-law said that she would come to visit the young to make sure that her daughter lives in normal conditions. Of course, Igor was categorically against this. And Lena herself was not particularly pleased with this news. Which isn't weird, though. Who would want to separate a husband from his mother?
However, the train ticket has already been bought, and not letting your own mother into your home is too much. So now Lena had to solve the main question: how to reconcile her husband with her mother, who do not tolerate each other in spirit. What do you think is the best thing for a girl in this situation?
Igor and Lena have been living together for five years, and only a year ago the couple decided to seal their union officially. Immediately after the wedding, the young family moved to the capital. Money, as is often the case, the newlyweds had little, so that the couple rented a modest apartment, and in general lived without frills.
Lena's mother was initially against this marriage, let alone moving. Even while the couple huddled in her house, saving money for renting their own housing, Nadezhda Mikhailovna repeatedly reproached Igor that he was good for nothing. “You can’t really take care of the two of you now, but what will happen, how will the children appear?” the dissatisfied mother-in-law asked.
Igor only kept silent and counted the days until the cherished date, when he and Lena will finally be able to leave their father’s home and start a quiet family life together. What could he say? The guy himself understood that he was not in a position to come into conflict with his mother-in-law.
Now that the young people have taken the first step towards the realization of their dreams and were able to move to the capital, life has acquired a completely different color. Igor recently offered a higher-paying position, and debts on loans slowly began to decrease. Everything seemed to finally get better. But Nadezhda Mikhailovna could not leave the new family alone.
Now that she was a hundred miles away, she had no choice but to try to bring her to her senses through phone calls and Skype video calls. Nadezhda Mikhailovna knew perfectly well what time Igor returns from work and always called at this time. Instead of greeting, Lena’s mother in a shrill voice begged her daughter to divorce Igor. Like, while there are no children, she can find a better party.
And one day, the mother-in-law said that she would come to visit the young to make sure that her daughter lives in normal conditions. Of course, Igor was categorically against this. And Lena herself was not particularly pleased with this news. Which isn't weird, though. Who would want to separate a husband from his mother?
However, the train ticket has already been bought, and not letting your own mother into your home is too much. So now Lena had to solve the main question: how to reconcile her husband with her mother, who do not tolerate each other in spirit. What do you think is the best thing for a girl in this situation?
