Why older children are more responsible and the younger one is smarter

A person's character is influenced not only by genes and conditions of life, but even then, how the account of the child he is in the family. And here is how.





 

There are many factors that affect who we ultimately become. In addition to heredity and other factors on the child's character is influenced even which child it will be. Although parents usually give it less attention.

The first child is always special for both parents. It gets maximum care and love. Various studies show that first-borns are usually very smart and reliable in a relationship. They almost always choose professions that require devotion and commitment. Therefore, among so much, for example, doctors. Parents often ask older children to watch younger, and this makes them responsible and reliable. Experts believe that the eldest child, if he sees that endow it with the status of the elder is usually much more responsible.

The second child in the family often receives help from his older brother or sister, so he often clamoring for freedom. And grows more independent from their parents. Also they are almost always more spoiled: when in family there are any disputes, the younger children usually can count on more support than the older ones.

Between the older and younger child often develops a rivalry. When children are small, it appears that the older child starts to act up more than usual. Experts say that while parents say that the children try both to be given equal attention, in practice no one fails. For this reason, if the family has two children, the eldest, is likely to be more intelligent, though more religious. But younger children are usually more relaxed, more confident and not so afraid of change.

It so happens that children in the family of three. Middle children often complain that they have to wear clothes inherited from older brothers and sisters. On the other hand, they are usually calmer younger and older children, they easier perceive adversity and strife. Usually the most emotionally stable times as the average age of children in the family.

First children often get leaders, activists, social workers, and managers. Among them, for example, George Bush, Oprah Winfrey, Winston Churchill. The children in the family more often than usual rise of the independent professionals, entrepreneurs, employees of creative professions — all due to the fact that usually if the family has three children or more, an average, children are given more freedom. Average children per family was Donald trump, Julia Roberts, Jay Leno, Madonna and Britney Spears. They also get less parental attention of all.

Of the youngest children in the family are usually talented Smarty pants programmers, lawyers, counselors, psychologists, and scientists. Younger children were bill gates, Howard stern, Gandhi, Cameron Diaz.

Interestingly, experts say that what matters is not only the ordinal position of the child in the family, but the age difference between him and his brothers and sisters. Experts believe that the optimal difference between the number of children should be about 3 years. Then children are less likely to swear in childhood and stronger than all friends in adulthood. If the difference is smaller between children is bound to be a rivalry. On the other hand, the higher the age difference between children, so between them there will be more alienation. Due mainly because the older brother will not accept the younger as an equal.

The researchers emphasize that their generalized findings typical for most people, but exceptions to the rule are always possible.

 

source: Lifter.com.ua

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