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28 Principles of Attraction by Thomas Leonard
28 Principles of Attraction by Thomas Leonard in The Portable Coach (Scribners, 1998)
1. Be selfish in a good way. Move towards your true goals.
Be aware of what you are doing – your own business or someone else’s. Try to spend most of your life on your own business.
2. Disconnect from the future. Live here and now. Don’t cling to the future, and don’t be afraid of it. Build the future with your own hands, daily activities gradually approach the goal.
3. Respond strongly to each event, be indifferent. Such an attentive attitude to your own life allows you to notice, use, and sometimes even create “lucky cases” – favorable coincidences. Serious results can then be achieved with minimal investment.
4. Create a super reserve in every area of your life. Having enough is not enough to be attractive.
5. Add joy to your work. When you do a job with joy, you are naturally attractive.
6. Deeply influence other people. Develop your leadership skills.
7. Boldly promote your talents. Forget that we were taught not to brag. Show the world what you are really good at.
8. Become unavoidably attractive to yourself. If you don’t value yourself, how can you be attractive to others?
9. Make life as full and meaningful as possible. Where there are many events, there are many things to do. Where there are many things, there are many things. Great life is attractive, expressive life style is simply seductive.
10. Do more than you promise. When you give more than you promise, you create a great reputation and respect.
11. Find what is important and move on to it. Moving forward is attractive, just striving forward is not enough.
12. Don't put it off until later. Losing time is not attractive.
13. Satisfy your needs. To get a lot, you have to want a lot. Needs are the hidden energy spring of any activity. The more needs, the greater the thirst for life, the greater the energy potential of the activity, the higher the level of motivation and the higher the probability of achieving the goal.
14. Get into the details, be precise. Be attentive to details and nuances. This distinguishes a competent specialist from an amateur.
15. Stop “saving” others when you are not asked to. Often people do this in order not to deal with themselves and their business.
16. Show others how to make you feel good. Be open, don’t make them guess.
17. Be honest with yourself and others and acknowledge your shortcomings. Knowing these shortcomings will allow you to either plan and start working with them, or simply take them into account and bypass them in the process of achieving goals.
18. Develop sensitivity. Feeling more, you instantly react to new opportunities in the present.
19. Improve your surroundings. After all, it is our environment that affects our quality of life in general. Improve communication with other people.
20. Develop willpower and character, be stubborn and persistent. Integrity is not enough to be irresistibly attractive.
21. Realize how wonderful your present is. In this world, you should have enough of the joys of life – things or deeds that give you positive emotions.
22. Be a constructive person – build, not destroy! The high level of relationships is very attractive.
23. Consider your interests and build your life around them. When you do something useful to yourself, you are attractive.
24. Simplify everything. Choose the important, give up the insignificant.
25. Boost your skills. Discover your talents and use them. Be the best at what you do is the shortest way to be successful.
26. Recognize and tell the truth. Truth is the most attractive thing. This is the necessary skill and awareness.
27. Have a vision. A clear idea of your future creates a kind of inner core of a person who is easily felt by others. The presence of such an inner core is characteristic of purposeful and strong people, which attracts other people to them.
28. Be human. When you are genuinely sincere, you are attractive.
P.S. And remember, just by changing your consciousness – together we change the world!
Source: osokina.com.ua
1. Be selfish in a good way. Move towards your true goals.
Be aware of what you are doing – your own business or someone else’s. Try to spend most of your life on your own business.
2. Disconnect from the future. Live here and now. Don’t cling to the future, and don’t be afraid of it. Build the future with your own hands, daily activities gradually approach the goal.
3. Respond strongly to each event, be indifferent. Such an attentive attitude to your own life allows you to notice, use, and sometimes even create “lucky cases” – favorable coincidences. Serious results can then be achieved with minimal investment.
4. Create a super reserve in every area of your life. Having enough is not enough to be attractive.
5. Add joy to your work. When you do a job with joy, you are naturally attractive.
6. Deeply influence other people. Develop your leadership skills.
7. Boldly promote your talents. Forget that we were taught not to brag. Show the world what you are really good at.
8. Become unavoidably attractive to yourself. If you don’t value yourself, how can you be attractive to others?
9. Make life as full and meaningful as possible. Where there are many events, there are many things to do. Where there are many things, there are many things. Great life is attractive, expressive life style is simply seductive.
10. Do more than you promise. When you give more than you promise, you create a great reputation and respect.
11. Find what is important and move on to it. Moving forward is attractive, just striving forward is not enough.
12. Don't put it off until later. Losing time is not attractive.
13. Satisfy your needs. To get a lot, you have to want a lot. Needs are the hidden energy spring of any activity. The more needs, the greater the thirst for life, the greater the energy potential of the activity, the higher the level of motivation and the higher the probability of achieving the goal.
14. Get into the details, be precise. Be attentive to details and nuances. This distinguishes a competent specialist from an amateur.
15. Stop “saving” others when you are not asked to. Often people do this in order not to deal with themselves and their business.
16. Show others how to make you feel good. Be open, don’t make them guess.
17. Be honest with yourself and others and acknowledge your shortcomings. Knowing these shortcomings will allow you to either plan and start working with them, or simply take them into account and bypass them in the process of achieving goals.
18. Develop sensitivity. Feeling more, you instantly react to new opportunities in the present.
19. Improve your surroundings. After all, it is our environment that affects our quality of life in general. Improve communication with other people.
20. Develop willpower and character, be stubborn and persistent. Integrity is not enough to be irresistibly attractive.
21. Realize how wonderful your present is. In this world, you should have enough of the joys of life – things or deeds that give you positive emotions.
22. Be a constructive person – build, not destroy! The high level of relationships is very attractive.
23. Consider your interests and build your life around them. When you do something useful to yourself, you are attractive.
24. Simplify everything. Choose the important, give up the insignificant.
25. Boost your skills. Discover your talents and use them. Be the best at what you do is the shortest way to be successful.
26. Recognize and tell the truth. Truth is the most attractive thing. This is the necessary skill and awareness.
27. Have a vision. A clear idea of your future creates a kind of inner core of a person who is easily felt by others. The presence of such an inner core is characteristic of purposeful and strong people, which attracts other people to them.
28. Be human. When you are genuinely sincere, you are attractive.
P.S. And remember, just by changing your consciousness – together we change the world!
Source: osokina.com.ua