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I'm a child psychologist and I get tired sometimes. My main problem is the parents of my little clients who are disfiguring them. After all, all the problems are from childhood, or rather from parents. They are a role model for a child.

I don’t know if it’s personally so “lucky” for me, or indeed almost half of the children who are referred to a psychologist by doctors or teachers with suspicion of various disorders (this is how most clients come to me), the diagnosis is the same: the surrounding adults are idiots.





1. A four-year-old boy behaves aggressively, throws himself at other children on the court and insults his younger sister. After ten minutes with his mother and stepfather, everything becomes obvious. In the family, even adults do not know the words “sorry”, “please” and “thank you”, they usually communicate with the help of yelling at each other, promises “now how to punch” and so on. The most affectionate thing they said to the child in front of me was, “Shut up, you bastard!” And in general, the stepfather of the child (the aging gopnik, who has a passport forty, and in his mind is 13-14 years old) it seems that teaching the baby to any words of his grandmother to answer “Shut up, old bitch!” is a great witty joke. In general, the boy does not have any disorders, just like his parents.

2. Six-year-old girl Sasha speaks about herself in a male way and tries to convince everyone that she is a boy Sanya. Gender identity disorder? Nothing like that. Just dad and mom wanted a second son and from infancy tell the daughter how sorry that she was not born a boy, any manifestation of weakness say: “What are you like a girl?” (nothing that your child is actually a girl?!), and the request to buy beautiful shoes is perceived as a sign that the daughter will grow up a prostitute – this word she already knows perfectly well. With the older brother, the girls are worn as with a written torso: he is a boy. Sasha, of course, has two options: either permanently recognize yourself as a second-class person, or try to somehow become a first-class person. She chose the latter option, and this is perfectly normal for a person with a healthy mind (even if small). It's not normal - so spoil a smart and underdeveloped girl's head before school!

3. The first-grader is constantly trying to climb into other children's pants, adjusts from behind, imitating sexual intercourse, and persuades girls to dance striptease. Increased interest in this topic at such an early age can be a symptom of several big issues. Either the child was corrupted, or he has a serious hormonal failure (adult hormonal set in the body of the child), or some problems with the cerebral cortex. However, it turns out that just the father of the child considers it perfectly normal in the presence of his son to watch porn on the computer: “What’s the matter, he’s small, he doesn’t understand anything.” And if he understands, let him grow up as a man, gee-gy-gy.

4. A ten-year-old girl literally hates all the boys and any hints of inter-sex relationships, a deskmate who said she was beautiful, ran into a fury and broke his nose. The whole thing happened because of the girl’s mother. It's a single mother. A woman with a turbulent but not very happy personal life. A series of “new dads”, some of whom did not last even three months (and one of them also beat the girl), and “we are like girlfriends, I tell her everything.” So my mother made my daughter a confidante. The child from early childhood knows which of the mother's "uncle" problems with potency, who has a jealous wife, guarding her mother at work at the entrance (after that, two stitches had to be applied to her face), who "did not even buy a ring", from whom she had three abortions, and so on. The mother sincerely believes that she prepares the girl for adulthood. The girl believes that “adult life” is only endless fights with someone’s wives, abortions, problems with potency, and she saw all this in the coffin (and in this case it is difficult not to understand it).

5. A ten-year-old boy. A rare case: the child brought mother. With the query “Do something, he annoys the father” (in general, the search for a “button” that you can click on to make the child comfortable is a favorite topic of parents who bring children themselves). In general, the situation is almost classic: dad from time to time finds a new love and goes to her, then his mother “wins” him back with borscht and silk coats, for some time in the idyll family, and then everything repeats. The intervals are getting shorter, and the child in general “spoils everything” – refers to the Pope as a pope, not as an Eastern padishah. Recently – just think! – asked a parent suffering from a hangover to help him solve the problem (he was obscured and received such a subhead that flew to the wall). The answer “Better, damn it, write Dad healing pendels!”, of course, in the framework of professional ethics is not included, but this is almost the main thing that comes to mind in this case.

All of these cases are literally in the last month. So far, all these (and many like them) children are just normal children who are not lucky with their families. But it won’t take long — other people’s children, as you know, grow very quickly — and they will turn into quite adults, formed ghouls that will maim the next generation of babies. And how to stop this conveyor for the production of moral cripples - I do not know. published



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