11 topics that should not be raised in conversations, so as not to destroy the relationship

According to a study by the Institute of Social Psychology, more than 60% of interpersonal conflicts arise from incorrectly chosen topics for discussion.


In an age where communication plays a key role in building both personal and professional relationships, being able to choose the right topics to talk to is becoming a critical skill. Consider topics that can negatively affect the quality of communication and lead to undesirable consequences.

1. Financial situation of the interlocutor
Discussing income, debt, or financial difficulties can cause discomfort and create tension in the relationship. Research shows that more than 80% of people find talking about money inappropriate in most social situations.

2. Religious beliefs
Faith is a deeply personal aspect of everyone’s life. Imposing one’s religious views or criticizing others can lead to serious conflict and a breakdown in relationships.



3. Political preferences
In today’s world, political views are often a source of disagreement. Polarization can lead to emotional disputes and loss of understanding.

4. Personal life
Questions about a romantic relationship, marriage plans, or reasons for breaking up can be perceived as an invasion of privacy.

5. Appearance and physical characteristics
Comments about weight, height, or other physical characteristics can hurt a person’s feelings and negatively affect their self-esteem.

Remember that even good intentions do not justify discussing sensitive topics without the explicit consent of the interlocutor.


6. Health problems
Discussing illnesses or medical problems can cause anxiety and discomfort.



7. Social status
Comparing social standing or career achievements can create an awkward situation and lead to tension in relationships.

8. Family problems
Conflicts in the family, problems with relatives or the upbringing of children should be discussed only in the circle of close people.

9. Past mistakes and failures
Reminding you of past mistakes can cause negative emotions and ruin your current relationship.

10. Intimate details
Discussion of intimate life can create discomfort and violate the personal boundaries of the interlocutor.

11. Gossip and rumors
Spreading unverified information about others can undermine trust and reputation.

How to build a constructive dialogue
Instead of forbidden topics, focus on:

• Common interests and hobbies
• Positive life events
• Professional development
• Cultural events and the arts

Glossary
Polarization of opinion
The process of dividing society into groups with opposing views on certain issues.
Social competence
The ability to interact effectively with others, taking into account social norms and the context of the situation.
Emotional intelligence
The ability to recognize emotions, understand other people’s intentions and motivations, and manage their emotions.


Wisdom consists not so much in knowing what to say as in knowing when to keep silent. - Ancient wisdom.