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Why You Should Not Interfere with Childhood Conflicts
When a child begins to regularly go to kindergarten and communicate there with peers, his adaptation to new conditions can not always go smoothly. If someone begins to offend a child, the first thing that comes to the mind of a loving parent is to go and punish the offender.
Today we are discussing how to decide. childishnessThey can turn into fights, and sometimes into real bullying. After all, conscious parents can not leave their child alone with problems, especially if the child is still very young. How do you help him solve his problems?
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“To deal with the abuser of a child is a normal human reaction, but it will not lead to anything good,” says a psychologist-teacher with 10 years of experience and mother of two children Natalia Cuzoro.
It turns out that an adult can not even chatIt’s not about finding relationships or threatening. The usual situation, when the boy offended the girl, she complained at home, and the mother came to scold the young offender. Kindergarten as it is. And that’s why, according to Natalia, you can’t do this.
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When the baby cries and complains How can you not believe him? So, coming to the “disassembly”, you are already firmly convinced of your rightness. But, as practice shows, in about 9 cases out of 10 there are hidden details.
Sometimes children fool together or the child himself did something bad, but is afraid to admit it and tries to shift the blame on another. There are also children who try to get a little more love and attention through victim status. Therefore, in each situation you need to understand before arranging a “disassembly”.
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If the child is really offended, then you should contact the teacher, head of the kindergarten or local psychologist. These people have the appropriate education and experience that help masterfully resolve conflicts between children. In any case, with their assistance, it will be easier to solve the problem.
The main thing is to tune in to work together for the benefit of the child, and not to consider the trip to the leadership of the kindergarten as an event for a tick. Remember that other parents are also interested in deciding kindergartenWhich means you can work with the abuser's mom and dad.
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If your child is too small, then learn how to choose the right kindergarten to minimize the risk of problems in the future. In addition, the child should like the institution he visits. After all, children are very sensitive and vulnerable creatures for whom the situation decides a lot.
For you, your baby is the best in the world, and that's okay. But sometimes the problem can be in him. Read that you can not forbid the baby, perhaps because of such mistakes in education, your child is not independent, why other children take over him.
Today we are discussing how to decide. childishnessThey can turn into fights, and sometimes into real bullying. After all, conscious parents can not leave their child alone with problems, especially if the child is still very young. How do you help him solve his problems?
DepositPhotos
“To deal with the abuser of a child is a normal human reaction, but it will not lead to anything good,” says a psychologist-teacher with 10 years of experience and mother of two children Natalia Cuzoro.
It turns out that an adult can not even chatIt’s not about finding relationships or threatening. The usual situation, when the boy offended the girl, she complained at home, and the mother came to scold the young offender. Kindergarten as it is. And that’s why, according to Natalia, you can’t do this.
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- Explain to the child what is good and what is bad, can only those who are responsible for him – parents, educators, teachers. You won’t be responsible for a child if something happens after an “explanatory” conversation with him.
- Neither in school nor in kindergarten staff have the right to extradite a child to an outsider. Imagine that you gave the child to kindergarten, and in the evening you pick him up after a conversation.
DepositPhotos - If you're talking to someone else's child, why can't other parents talk to yours? You don’t know what they’re saying or tone. Why can't they, if you're allowed? For this reason, no one is allowed.
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When the baby cries and complains How can you not believe him? So, coming to the “disassembly”, you are already firmly convinced of your rightness. But, as practice shows, in about 9 cases out of 10 there are hidden details.
Sometimes children fool together or the child himself did something bad, but is afraid to admit it and tries to shift the blame on another. There are also children who try to get a little more love and attention through victim status. Therefore, in each situation you need to understand before arranging a “disassembly”.
DepositPhotos
If the child is really offended, then you should contact the teacher, head of the kindergarten or local psychologist. These people have the appropriate education and experience that help masterfully resolve conflicts between children. In any case, with their assistance, it will be easier to solve the problem.
The main thing is to tune in to work together for the benefit of the child, and not to consider the trip to the leadership of the kindergarten as an event for a tick. Remember that other parents are also interested in deciding kindergartenWhich means you can work with the abuser's mom and dad.
DepositPhotos
If your child is too small, then learn how to choose the right kindergarten to minimize the risk of problems in the future. In addition, the child should like the institution he visits. After all, children are very sensitive and vulnerable creatures for whom the situation decides a lot.
For you, your baby is the best in the world, and that's okay. But sometimes the problem can be in him. Read that you can not forbid the baby, perhaps because of such mistakes in education, your child is not independent, why other children take over him.