Why the father leaves the family immediately after the birth of the long-awaited first child

What a joy it is to have a child who has been waiting for so long! Perhaps happiness like this cannot be expressed in ordinary human words. No matter how rosy the mood, the test time has begun. Long-awaited child He'll put everything in its place.



Unfortunately, not everyone can cope here. And it is, perhaps, primarily our brave men. Not so long ago, we have already written about how they perceive the appearance of children and what happens when... In short, we're in the editorial. "Site" We decided to show a very possible scenario.

The long-awaited baby is here at the hospital: happy mother and a shocked father. Flowers, relatives, all drink champagne, fun and gifts. First night at home with the baby. In the middle of the night, the father can’t stand it and hides in the kitchen. I mean, this kid's always yelling, and he's so sleepy. Yeah, my wife understands.



Every day my mother feeds, swaddles, walks. Always up. You also need to cook something to eat, so that the husband with hunger hoofs did not throw away. On the weekend after a walk, I want to relax, I know that my husband is home. He comes, but he's gone! On the phone, they say that you are somewhere, says that somewhere with the guys. Great.

Mom's working really hard. It's the same day after day. Baby, kitchen, cleaning, laundry. Try not to look at yourself in the mirror. Hair not groomedMy eyes are red and I can’t remember when I used makeup. Husband's busy. Why not? The house is cleaned, the food, the little wife is engaged. We can relax.



On timid requests to help the husband reacts quite sharply. His wife just sits at home and does nothing. Sitting there with a baby, you know? Don’t cancel your plans because of this? At the end of the day, it’s about business, work, and overall well-being.



That's how mom tries, tries to keep up, but can one woman control it? At least take out the trash, man! Gets angry, locks himself in the bathroom and sleeps over his phone. My son doesn’t seem to care much either. What is the first smile, what is it? first?



At some point, my mom gets bored of it all. One evening, the father returns to an empty apartment, there is not even an explanatory note on the table, the husband also ignores the calls. And our man is scratching his head, completely sincerely not understanding why this happened and what all this means. When she does answer the phone, he hears the voices of her parents.

Does the editorial board need to talk about what comes next? We sincerely want to believe that men are more responsible now and at least want to witness their children growing up. Write a comment if you know the situation. Tell me how you can change it. attitude?



We're not saying everyone's like that! Long-awaited child He is usually surrounded by unconditional love from both parents. How can it get boring? Read our next article about how three children won't stop a husband moving toward divorce like a steam engine. And thank you for staying with us!