Being a parent is great! But those of us who have children certainly know that it is not always easy. The children were well-mannered, educated, adapted to life, you need to pay enough time and effort. With children we understand that they do not always know how to behave in a given situation.
We at the Website
decided to look into the most common child behavior problems that often bother parents and which in any case can not let go.
Sometimes children are afraid to talk about the fact that you witnessed something bad, because I think that they could get in trouble because of this.
Some children intentionally ignore this to punish or to win approval
. Others do believe
thus they do best, help
the child needs to explain the difference between talkativeness and alertness. You need to calmly listen to the child, not to judge, to help to understand the situation and solve the problem.
The rivalry between brothers and sisters
Sometimes parents provoke such conflicts, hanging on kids labels
(for example, that one of them is smart, beautiful, sporty) or the making of any of the brothers or sisters of his pet.Solution:
find out the root of the problem, and deny the infliction of physical pain. Help the children to feel a real team, teach them how to equitably resolve conflicts. Explain that it is important to respect the feelings of each other. Try to regularly spend time alone with each child, it will help to maintain cordial relations in the family.
The child can start to assign someone else from lack of attention from friends and family, because of a strong desire to own any thing, from a lack of development of moral views and will.Solution:
it is important your attitude to the incident. Keep calm. If your child took someone else's for the first time, find out why he did it, explain that to do so absolutely not, and ask him to return (or pay for) thing and apologize. If this is repeated over and over again — please seek professional psychological help. Otherwise, it can gain a foothold persistent habit.
Disrespectful attitude towards others
Disrespectful behavior can manifest itself not only in adolescents but also in children under the age of 2 years. Younger children often repeat what they saw on TV,
or copying adults or older brothers and sisters,
because I think it is normal.Solution:
understand what is causing this behavior. Teach your children how to Express their emotions and desires and to remain calm; to listen. If the child behaves provocatively — depriving him of the privileges which he enjoys.
Great importance is the age of the child. Since children up to 7 years, usually just a very active imagination. Among the reasons lie experts call the desire to avoid trouble, the need for attention, fear of authoritarian parents, or the desire to get what you want.Solution:
stay calm.Explain to your child the importance of honesty and trust in relationships. Consider an appropriate penalty, which will show the child that lying is unacceptable. If cheating becomes a norm, it can be a sign of more serious problems — it is necessary to work in this direction with the specialist.
It is a signal that not satisfied some need of the child. First of all make sure
that the childis all right.
Also, he maynot grab your attention
or to disturb anything
. In this way children can achieve
if parents are hesitant or impose too high requirements.Solution:
try to take a dispassionate expression. Remind the child that he spoke in an ordinary voice. If this behavior becomes permanent, you need to understand what happens in the family may discuss it with child, so he felt that he was also part of it.
We can affect why kids slurp or don't show basic respect towards others. You may be surprised, but such manners laid
it in the family
. The word "please", "thank you", "sorry", as the simplest rules of behavior at the table, are reasonable expectations.Solution:
don't push kids when you teach them manners, and often remind them that they were attentive to other people. It is also important for parents and friends to behave because children repeat what they see.Illustrator Yekaterina Ragozina
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