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9 signs that you are a successful person
An ambitious person would have from time to time to feel like a loser. Ambitious targets will inevitably lead to moments when it seems that the expectations do not match reality.
We live in a world that reinforces that feeling. Although most people deny it, deep down, is usually to success equals wealth. Too bad that we are becoming a victim of materialistic thinking, because clearly capable of more.
Most people deep down realize that happiness is a key measure of our achievement, not power, money or prestige. Real success — good relationships with family, friends and loved job.
But my eyes often mislead us. It is difficult to give up the idea that the most successful are people with large houses, expensive cars and powerful friends. There will always be someone more rich, influential, in comparison with which you will feel like a loser. But the problem is not the lack of expensive toys — the problem is in identifying them with the true success.
Real success lies in who you are and how far. Worrying because of the apparent lack of success, you measure yourself by the wrong standards. Sometimes you just need to remember what you really accomplished in life. Here are a few criteria that will help you with this.
1. You don't care about the opinions of others
People worry about the opinions of others, only when trying to prove something. On the other hand, you know that you have achieved a lot, when you stop to think about it — you are true to yourself and your principles, and satisfied with their lives. You have succeeded, if the judgment of others for you are only opinions. They have no effect on reality. They're not trying to change you.
2. You retain optimism
Hope and optimism are important components of a happy life. Focusing on what went wrong, the man becomes angry and resentful. When this happens, failure is not far off — regardless of previous achievements. Real success means you always see the bright side and believe in their ability to change it for the better.
3. You know that failure is not forever
The only people who never fail — those who does nothing. A successful person takes any failure as a temporary phenomenon and use it to learn something new and then move on. If you are still struggling with this phenomenon, know that real success will come once you learn to accept defeat. Mistakes pave the road to success — they show that we've gone down the wrong path. The biggest breakthroughs happen when we are visited by disappointment and despair. It is this frustration forces you to think differently, to go beyond and determine the right solution.
4. You retain the prospect
Sometimes accidents happen — that's life. However, in most cases the worst our day in any comparison does not go with the real problems: lack of food, wars, etc. once you learn to keep term, forgotten in the car keys or missed raising more will not seem a disaster. The ability to see the big picture, an important achievement.
5. You ask for help when it is needed
The refusal of necessary assistance, a sign of emotional immaturity. Please help with what you are trying to prove something, while remaining "perfect". The ability to ask for support shows that you are not afraid to show others your weakness and you know — no one achieves success alone.
6. You know: life is not a zero-sum game
But not "swing". Someone's great success does not mean that you will have the same size loss. Just at this particular time you didn't win. A sure sign of a successful person is the ability with sincere enthusiasm, to rejoice over the achievements of others.
7. You feel the difference between drama and excitement
Remember the days when in a relationship loyal partners seemed boring and you quickly get tired of a decent attitude? If such "drama" in the past, congratulations. You are on your way to success, preferring the drama of stability and depth.
8. You are no longer the "center of the Universe"
We are all familiar with the "successful" people who act like they are the navel of the earth. The world belongs to them and we got here with their kind permission, isn't it? Alas, the truth is that this is not a success. Real success is inseparable from the ability to empathize — the awareness of the fact that the feelings and dreams of others is as important as ours.
9. You are taking something that is not in a position to change and change the things I can
There is a big difference between pessimism and practicality. When you move a hurricane, there is no stopping it. But taking the fact, you can begin to work to mitigate its effects. If the company intends to cut you denial of the obvious just delays acceptance of the inevitable. To overcome this, study the options and change what you can. One of the most important indicators of success — responsibility for their own lives and the desire to change it for the better.
9 success factors that you are not dependent
2 rules that will change your personal life forever
Putting it all together
There is no point to feel bad just because sure, you deserve a good job, a big house or an expensive car. Real success comes from within, and it does not depend on circumstances.published
P. S. And remember, just changing your mind — together we change the world! ©
Source: insider.pro/EN/lifestyle/2016-07-17/9-priznakov-togo-chto-vy-uspeshnyi-chelovek/
We live in a world that reinforces that feeling. Although most people deny it, deep down, is usually to success equals wealth. Too bad that we are becoming a victim of materialistic thinking, because clearly capable of more.
Most people deep down realize that happiness is a key measure of our achievement, not power, money or prestige. Real success — good relationships with family, friends and loved job.
But my eyes often mislead us. It is difficult to give up the idea that the most successful are people with large houses, expensive cars and powerful friends. There will always be someone more rich, influential, in comparison with which you will feel like a loser. But the problem is not the lack of expensive toys — the problem is in identifying them with the true success.
Real success lies in who you are and how far. Worrying because of the apparent lack of success, you measure yourself by the wrong standards. Sometimes you just need to remember what you really accomplished in life. Here are a few criteria that will help you with this.
1. You don't care about the opinions of others
People worry about the opinions of others, only when trying to prove something. On the other hand, you know that you have achieved a lot, when you stop to think about it — you are true to yourself and your principles, and satisfied with their lives. You have succeeded, if the judgment of others for you are only opinions. They have no effect on reality. They're not trying to change you.
2. You retain optimism
Hope and optimism are important components of a happy life. Focusing on what went wrong, the man becomes angry and resentful. When this happens, failure is not far off — regardless of previous achievements. Real success means you always see the bright side and believe in their ability to change it for the better.
3. You know that failure is not forever
The only people who never fail — those who does nothing. A successful person takes any failure as a temporary phenomenon and use it to learn something new and then move on. If you are still struggling with this phenomenon, know that real success will come once you learn to accept defeat. Mistakes pave the road to success — they show that we've gone down the wrong path. The biggest breakthroughs happen when we are visited by disappointment and despair. It is this frustration forces you to think differently, to go beyond and determine the right solution.
4. You retain the prospect
Sometimes accidents happen — that's life. However, in most cases the worst our day in any comparison does not go with the real problems: lack of food, wars, etc. once you learn to keep term, forgotten in the car keys or missed raising more will not seem a disaster. The ability to see the big picture, an important achievement.
5. You ask for help when it is needed
The refusal of necessary assistance, a sign of emotional immaturity. Please help with what you are trying to prove something, while remaining "perfect". The ability to ask for support shows that you are not afraid to show others your weakness and you know — no one achieves success alone.
6. You know: life is not a zero-sum game
But not "swing". Someone's great success does not mean that you will have the same size loss. Just at this particular time you didn't win. A sure sign of a successful person is the ability with sincere enthusiasm, to rejoice over the achievements of others.
7. You feel the difference between drama and excitement
Remember the days when in a relationship loyal partners seemed boring and you quickly get tired of a decent attitude? If such "drama" in the past, congratulations. You are on your way to success, preferring the drama of stability and depth.
8. You are no longer the "center of the Universe"
We are all familiar with the "successful" people who act like they are the navel of the earth. The world belongs to them and we got here with their kind permission, isn't it? Alas, the truth is that this is not a success. Real success is inseparable from the ability to empathize — the awareness of the fact that the feelings and dreams of others is as important as ours.
9. You are taking something that is not in a position to change and change the things I can
There is a big difference between pessimism and practicality. When you move a hurricane, there is no stopping it. But taking the fact, you can begin to work to mitigate its effects. If the company intends to cut you denial of the obvious just delays acceptance of the inevitable. To overcome this, study the options and change what you can. One of the most important indicators of success — responsibility for their own lives and the desire to change it for the better.
9 success factors that you are not dependent
2 rules that will change your personal life forever
Putting it all together
There is no point to feel bad just because sure, you deserve a good job, a big house or an expensive car. Real success comes from within, and it does not depend on circumstances.published
P. S. And remember, just changing your mind — together we change the world! ©
Source: insider.pro/EN/lifestyle/2016-07-17/9-priznakov-togo-chto-vy-uspeshnyi-chelovek/
