Why often criticism of parents ruins the fate of the child and how to help reveal the talent of the child

If Adolf were allowed to paint, the world would burn not with fires but with paint. How often does criticism of parents cause a child to close off from the outside world and forget about their talents? One careless word of a mom or dad can change not only the fate of a new person, but also the course of history. Humanity knows many examples of how the unrealized creative potential of the child turned into aggression and hatred. What is it? talent How to support the child in his aspirations? Editorial "Site" I have some practical advice for parents.



We have already written about how to motivate a child to learn. It’s not just learning that should be in a child’s life. It is also important to develop talent. Someone likes to sing or play the piano. Someone gets masterpieces with colors, and someone does not imagine his life without dancing. If parents were more likely to notice the inclinations of their children, the world would be full of happy realized personalities. But, as is often the case, parents are too busy solving adult issues, and children are left in the background.



Disclosed talent of the child in the family Yes, parents may be outraged. They earn money for the sake of a good childhood and the future of their children. And there's some truth to that. But the main problem is that tired parents in the evening simply have no time to see in the next smear of the baby glimpse of talent. Or in ridiculous movements to a popular song, when a child catches a melody without special education. And just at this point, parents need to focus on this and take the child to art school or dance.



The other extreme is that other parents are so desperate to find talent from their children that they just flood them with all sorts of mugs and sections. The child does not like to play the piano or sing. He loves mathematics and in early childhood mastered the elementary manual in physics. He loves all kinds of experiments and is already studying biology and chemistry. In the pursuit of fashion trends, parents again forget about children and their natural potential. Here you can advise to stop and understand that we are all different and do not look like a neighbor’s family.



The third extreme of parents in realizing their child’s talents is formulaic thinking. We are taught from childhood that only women should sew or cook. Carpentering, working with technology is a man's business. Units manage to break out of this patterned thinking and show their true potential. Would the world of talented stylists, designers, chefs, scientists and researchers have known if they had not followed their destiny? Many of them have sought their recognition with perseverance, hard work and perseverance. And yes, they did not feel the support of their parents, but their faith and desire were stronger than the prohibitions. That’s why open talent is so important.



How to support the aspirations of the child So how to help your child develop talents? Never criticize the child in his manifestations and undertakings. Even if the smear came out uneven and the note went wrong. Praise and just say, “You did better today than you did yesterday.” You discover your talent every day. I believe in you. You'll succeed. It is important to hear a pleasant word, but I especially want to hear words of support from the closest and dearest people – parents.



Always have a small party in honor of the next victory of the child. Or simply participate in a contest or competition. Even if he didn't win the prize. For him, participation is already a big step towards victory. Always be there for your child in such exciting moments. Thus, the concept of support and understanding of support is formed. He will behave the same way with his children. And then there will be less aggression, evil and envy in the world. After all, every tyrant and dictator is a once disliked unfulfilled talented child.

How do you help your child develop their talent? Or maybe your parents had their own way of parenting? Write it to us in the comments.