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How to grow your son a real Man
Recently my 5 year old son decided to cook a dish. Took the real pan, pour real butter, real crumbled bread, put it in the fire (well, here I helped) and began to expect a miracle!
— Mom, tasty I'll do it?
— Of course.
— Do you believe in me?
— Of course I do!
And after the ceremonial eating of the resulting toast, my admiration (well, here I tried) happened the following dialog:
— As I could?
— Apparently, you are very talented.
Yeah, this is how I was born. You can be proud of his son!
Well, how does it feel? He's only 5 years...
Nothing of the sort! NO MATTER HOW MANY MAN YEARS — HE IS EITHER A MAN OR NOT!
Or how he's ALLOWED to BE a MAN in this length of time?
After all, we women complain that none of these Men are extinct, died out as mammoths.
But WHO fosters tell me these feminine men?! Who does not give them what they so vital? Making! Freedom! Feelings of usefulness! Faith in him! Admiration of his exploits!
After all, if in childhood they do not hide their needs:
waiting of faith ("do You believe in me?"),
waiting acceptance ("Well, I was born like this"),
waiting for freedom (let me make a feat — to prepare a dish),
waiting voshishenieI ("You can be proud of your son!"),
then as adults, simply do not want to feel PAIN when they don'T believe, don'T need them, NOT accept them, do NOT admire their actions.
And then there is the notorious lack of masculinity...
But waiting for masculinity, and it is desirable to show FEMININITY.
How to motivate your child to exercise — 7 principles of success
What parents with teenagers who want nothing
And then we will grow happy sons are able to continue to make happy their families.published
Author: Jeanne Alsina
P. S. And remember, only by changing their consumption — together we change the world! ©
Source: vk.com/id261580054
— Mom, tasty I'll do it?
— Of course.
— Do you believe in me?
— Of course I do!
And after the ceremonial eating of the resulting toast, my admiration (well, here I tried) happened the following dialog:
— As I could?
— Apparently, you are very talented.
Yeah, this is how I was born. You can be proud of his son!
Well, how does it feel? He's only 5 years...
Nothing of the sort! NO MATTER HOW MANY MAN YEARS — HE IS EITHER A MAN OR NOT!
Or how he's ALLOWED to BE a MAN in this length of time?
After all, we women complain that none of these Men are extinct, died out as mammoths.
But WHO fosters tell me these feminine men?! Who does not give them what they so vital? Making! Freedom! Feelings of usefulness! Faith in him! Admiration of his exploits!
After all, if in childhood they do not hide their needs:
waiting of faith ("do You believe in me?"),
waiting acceptance ("Well, I was born like this"),
waiting for freedom (let me make a feat — to prepare a dish),
waiting voshishenieI ("You can be proud of your son!"),
then as adults, simply do not want to feel PAIN when they don'T believe, don'T need them, NOT accept them, do NOT admire their actions.
And then there is the notorious lack of masculinity...
But waiting for masculinity, and it is desirable to show FEMININITY.
How to motivate your child to exercise — 7 principles of success
What parents with teenagers who want nothing
And then we will grow happy sons are able to continue to make happy their families.published
Author: Jeanne Alsina
P. S. And remember, only by changing their consumption — together we change the world! ©
Source: vk.com/id261580054
