Top 15 tricky ways of psychology that are useful to know




1. When the laughing group of people, each instinctively looks at who he just cuter (or who he wanted to be a close person). 2. When you have to do something particularly important or requiring concentration, in one word, what usually makes us nervous, you should try to chew gum or even eat anything. Associate it subconsciously with the feeling of security, because we usually eat when we are not in danger. 3. If someone is angry, and we manage to remain calm, the anger will probably only escalate. Later, however, this man will be ashamed of his behavior. 4. If a question a person is responsible only partially, or too evasive, it is not necessary to ask again. Better to just silently look him in the eye. He will likely understand that this answer did not satisfy the interviewee, and will continue to talk. 5. Facial expressions, it turns out, not only can be the result of feelings, but also cause these same feelings. Feedback works almost flawlessly, so wishing to feel happy, you should smile as often as possible and wider. 6. It is better not to use in speech or letters such phrases as "I think" or "I think". They themselves are understood, but give the words a hint of hesitation. 7. Before an important interview it is useful to imagine that we are connected with the interviewer a long-standing close friendship. Ourselves almost always depends on how you perceive the situation, and our peace of mind and ease can be transmitted to the other party. 8. If we manage to force myself sincerely rejoice when meeting with someone, the next time you see this person and he will be happy to see us. (By the way, dogs are constantly doing with us this trick). 9. People tend to agree to a smaller favor after he refused to more. 10. A lot of useful information can be extracted, paying attention to the position of the legs of the interlocutor. If, say, socks, his shoes look in the opposite direction from us, it usually means that the person wants to end the conversation. 11. Many of us were able to attend the meeting, in a situation when there was reason to expect a sharp and unpleasant criticism from someone. In such circumstances it is best to sit down with this person. Practice shows that it will lose its fervor and intent to attack, or at least will be much softer. 12. Most people do not distinguish splendor from the simple confidence. If you can learn all kind to demonstrate confidence, people will be drawn to us. 13. Good advice for those who work in the service sector: it is necessary to hang behind the mirror. People will behave much more correct, because nobody likes to see themselves irritated and angry. 14. A very useful habit to notice the eye color of a person when meeting. He unconsciously will feel sympathy towards us due to the slightly prolonged eye contact. 15. Going on a first date, it is quite sensible to take your partner to some exciting place. Subsequently, positive emotions from this meeting will be associated with us.published by P. S. And remember, only by changing their consumption — together we change the world! ©

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