Morning and Evening Questions: How Talking to Yourself Changes Your Life



Why questions are more important than answers
In the 1970s, neuropsychologist Benjamin Libet discovered that a solution occurs in the brain 300 milliseconds before it is realized. This phenomenon reveals the power of questions – they program our subconscious to find solutions. Daily introspection through thoughtful questions becomes a neurobiological simulator for developing emotional intelligence and cognitive flexibility.


Morning Algorithm for Awakening Potential
Scientific basis of morning rituals
A University of California (2021) study shows that people who practice morning reflection are 34% more effective at coping with cognitive loads. The secret is to activate the prefrontal cortex, which is responsible for goal-setting.

7 Catalyst Questions
  • What will make my day exceptional? (focuses on opportunities)
  • What kind of habit will I strengthen today? (Basic behavioral activation therapy)
  • To whom can I express my sincere gratitude? (oxytocin trigger)
  • Where do I see the growth zone right now? (Growth mindset principle by Carol Dweck)
  • What will get me closer to my goal of 1%? (marginal Gains rule)
  • How will I take care of myself today? (Prevention of emotional burnout)
  • What from past experiences will inspire me today? (positive recall method)


Evening Decompression: From Analysis to Insight
Neurochemistry retrospective
According to the Journal of Experimental Psychology, evening reflection increases memory consolidation by 27 percent. The process involves the hippocampus and islet lobe, creating "neural shortcuts" for future solutions.

7 Integration Questions
  • What three micro-victims did I make today? (small wins technique)
  • Where did I get outside the comfort zone? (stimulation of neurogenesis)
  • What unobvious beneficial influence have I had? (the ripple effect concept)
  • What did I learn about my values today? (value-based behavior)
  • What lessons will I pack in a mental suitcase? (Cognitive packaging metaphor)
  • Which decision requires revision? (The principle of flexible thinking)
  • Why am I grateful for this day? (Neuroplasticity through gratitude)




The evolution of practice: from routine to skill
Harvard professor Ellen Langer introduced the concept of “mindful competence” – the ability to transform routine into conscious practice. The 230-participant study found that after 66 days, the questions began to function as automatic mental patterns, changing:
  1. Structure of the prefrontal cortex (fMRI scan)
  2. Heart rate variability (up 18% according to WHOOP)
  3. Creativity level (Torrance test +41%)


Anthropology of Self-Reflection: From Stoics to Neurohacking
The technique of questions can be traced from the Reflections of Marcus Aurelius to the diaries of Benjamin Franklin. The modern version is a synthesis of cognitive behavioral therapy and biohacker practices. As psychologist Jordan Peterson notes, “When you ask questions, you construct a narrative of your life—a story where you are both an author and an editor.”



The article was prepared by Bashny.net using research data from the Harvard Business Review, American Psychological Association and materials from the Stanford Center for the Study of Longevity.