Female friendship: life gives us many lessons... Bashny.Net

The loss of a friend... Most of us throughout our life had not time to go through it. Old friends go, new ones appear. Some, it would seem that people close to us leave, leaving in our lives visible trace. But it happens that the link which is established between two friends, becomes so close and intimate that we can't imagine a day without communicating with this person. We say that we need it like air.

This is especially true with women. According to the data published in the journal "Epidemiology and public Health" ("Epidemiology and Community Health") if health men impose serious impact on family relationships, physical and mental well-being of women need the support of friends.





So it's safe to say that ending the friendship (no matter for what reason it occurs) is not good for us no less a trauma than the breakup of a love relationship.

It is the loss of a friend will be the topic of our conversation today.

Friendship — a treasure that sustains us from day to day. Did you know that the concept of friendship can be attributed not only to the people? According to a study conducted by the journal "Science of animals" ("The Science of animal"), it's a feeling familiar to our younger brothers: chimpanzees, baboons, horses, hyenas, elephants and dolphins.

The influence of friendships on the emotional world of a person is enormous. While we realize that friendship is friendship discord. Typically, the range of human communication are wide enough, but the real friends you can count on one hand. Surely you can imagine the feeling and pain that a person experiences losing a friend.

The benefits of friendship to our health the University of Virginia (USA) a study was conducted in which experts came to the conclusion that the real sincere and mutual friendship makes people feel the same way.

Real empathy is so strong that it can be detected through various medical examinations, such as magnetic resonance imaging. So, when a friend is in trouble or going through a difficult situation the second person is going through is no less acute and painful. As a result of this study, you can see that in areas of the brain responsible for fear and threat, both people have the same activity. True friendship requires our daily effort and sincerity that brings the invaluable relief. Why is only one friendly advice! As a result of this communication, many problems begin to seem relative, stress and nervous tension recede and the world becomes bright tone. Given the important znacheniyami friendship for our emotional and physical state, we can easily imagine the pain that people can experience, for one reason or another, losing a close friend. The loss of a close friend forcing to break this intimate connection between two people? The reasons for this may be many. The gap can be as a consequence of the changing interests and life views, and the result of cheating, lying and other things, which relationship will never be the same again. No matter what was the cause of the rupture of friendly relations, its consequences are equally severe. Due to the loss of a friend, we experience the pain intensity can be compared emotionally injury caused by the rupture of a love relationship. During this we are again undergoing change. At first we are angry, we begin to treat everything with skepticism. Then there is a sense of misunderstanding, we start to wonder why all this happened. In the future there is internal conflict with ourselves, and we want to find the cause of the incident. Finally comes sadness, followed by a sense of reconciliation with loss. You may not agree with the fact that the gap with each other may have something to do with parting with a loved one. But in both cases the emotional bond between two people is close and intimate. Many of us are very grieved at the loss of friends. Life goes on As you know, throughout a person's life some friends leave, and are replaced by new relationships. Each of them impose certain imprint on our personality. Though our life paths diverge, life just goes on, and pain a thing of the past. Some friends have held a revered place in our heart. They left, leaving behind a void. This wound will never fully heal, because loved ones and the many hours spent with them will forever remain in our memory.


Try to focus on the good memories that remain as a result of this friendship. No one will Rob you. If you're thinking too much about the poor and about the causes that provoked the breakup, you will be harder again to open your heart to new friendships. It is not necessary to store bitterness in your heart. Life gives us many lessons, some of them quite severe. But that is no reason for pessimism, because we have no other choice but to accept all the challenges that comes along. If you lost a friend, do not despair. Sooner or later will again be a man who will awaken in your soul the tenderness and empathy. Don't forget that friendship is the best cure for the ills of life.published by P. S. And remember, only by changing their consumption — together we change the world! ©

Source: steptohealth.ru/pochemu-poterya-druga-ne-menee-boleznenna-chem-razryv-otnoshenij-s-partnyorom/