If you're one... of the 10 most valuable tips

No matter how evolved technological progress, not "umnel" airplanes, cars, at home, in relationships between men and women almost nothing has changed. From century to century, they are faced with the same problems.

And you are, unfortunately, not the only one who collapsed in the cold after trying to "make things right". Mom taught you to cook borscht, wash the men's shirt and wipe the dust under the couch, but I forgot to tell that men is much more complicated than your hamster and not clean enough cages and food in the trough.

And now put their diplomas to the side, give mom sports medals, take off your apron or get out of your chair and administration. Let's remember who you are. You have a beautiful smile, gentle hands, kind eyes, gentle movements, smooth skin, sweet voice. Remember? You are a woman!

Make yourself comfortable, grab a pen and a notebook. Let's figure out what you don't have to do a real woman?



1. To solve for him: When? How? Where?

You're clever and beautiful, know what you want, have rich experience, know "how better" and trust only myself. Have you prepared his plan of action, calculated way, time, found the right people... Hmm, but man you really need?

Record: Decision needs to be only male. After that, he strikes himself on purpose, seeking ways of realization and moves to her own speed! The woman inspires, equips, gives birth to, but never tries to assume the "male armor".

2. To rush the man.

That dress from the new collection will go out of fashion after a couple of months only knew you well, except that Domenico Dolce and Stefano Gabbana. Didn't need to put an ultimatum to use their "killer Arsenal" with tears, tantrums and blackmail. Now admire my dress for a friend, sleep in a cold bed...and say hi to Dolce and Gabbana.

Write: Men are inert, they need time to think and make an informed decision. No woman would pull the sprout before it will grow itself. Your desires, it is also the sprouts. Let them grow, get stronger and bear fruit. And most importantly, learn to be happy in the present.

3. To think that he's a loser.

Do you remember the power of his mind knocked over coffee on "the lady from the family of snake"? Now, think of what harm you are causing defenseless in love with you man. If you silently, mentally abuse him, are tedious inner dialogue, don't think around you, "blossom Daisy"...

Write down: Your mind is monstrous, a huge force. What do you think about the man, what you see, so he becomes. Fill her head thoughts that lead to abundance and prosperity. Under any circumstances, think about your man as the best, strongest, smartest. If you are, then voice and make sure you tell what you want. Most importantly, does not say the negative thoughts in my head.

4. To tell him what he needs.

Of course, you're the most independent of the free and owes nothing. But how could you let such liberty towards men? Your strong grip and regular reminders of the responsibilities with a list of demands over the head was to bring him much delight. And here is the list: "You came to comfort me, to massage the heels, wipe snot, led be on hand to the best restaurants, take in the Royal carriage, to feed the Golden cannoli..." Escaped the tenth paragraph? And you had to shout after him, "you have to stay" ?

Write down: a Man well-versed in this world and know about their responsibilities. If a woman starts to push at him, it causes him irritation, leads to stress, frustration and the search for freedom. Reconsider your list, find out what unmet need are you hiding under your requirements. Say not that he should, but about what you want. For example, "you must take me to dinner" replacing " I want to spend this evening with you in a pleasant atmosphere..."

5. Stored in the memory of his failure.

The surest way to be poor, is standing behind him, carefully locking his failures. And one day, of the "good" intentions, to remind him of past experiences: "Well, you remember how shit in my pants last time?"

Write down: the Main male role is to be a hero! He needs your admiration, even when he could not see it. It's not just praise, but a constant internal state. Focus on his "heroic deeds". Remember, when it shows its best masculine qualities. This will help to keep the feeling that you are next to the strong, purposeful and courageous man in the world.

6. To doubt him.

When your man comes home and, panting with happiness, begin to tell what is a half-step from the greatest discovery, your one wrong word could deprive the world of a brilliant scientist.

Write down: Your faith can work miracles. No unsuccessful men, there are those that have not believed the woman. And the man always will choose the one that believes in him. Without faith he is not able to be a hero to perform feats in honor of the "ladies of the heart" and means to be a man. Try to mentally lose situation when you don't believe in your man and then, in the same circumstances, draw a picture, when you believe in him. How are you going to behave, what to say, what to think?





7. House to turn into a Scarecrow.

All the household saw that your shift is not over. Every day you dressed in your "work oiled gown" and slapped "fry burgers". Never mind that sex was not six months. Two days didn't come? Maybe he saw your worn-out underwear in the bathroom and scared?

Write: When the woman brings gloss to exit "in people", and the house wears that "it is a pity to throw away", she shows the man the disrespect, shows that it is not as valuable as people in the street. Get stretched sweaters, sweatpants, and bathrobes. Testosterone levels in men depends on what you wear at home. Find clothes that emphasize your dignity and beauty, in a word, be hot.

8. To call him "Bunny", "kitten", "chicken" and other cute little animals.

You love animals and that's commendable, but note that your "Bunny rabbit" weighs 100 kg, in the morning, "prickly", "growls", goes every day "hunting" and brings you solid production. Maybe you confused "Bunny" with "a tiger"?

Write: the Parent will instinctivley many women to use diminutive nicknames not only to their children, but also men. In their apartments, "the bearded bunnies jump", "swim fish stall", "sofas two-meter stretch seals". The more they "scratched behind the ear", Pat, tinkering with them, the faster they turn into children. But that does not mean you have to give up the affectionate nicknames. Treatment: my lion, tiger, leopard, eagle, General, the Emperor is able to fill man with the necessary energy.

9. To be ashamed of.

Do you remember when your ex-boyfriend began to speak, and you looked down, shook his head, pulled his sleeve and sighed, to see you ashamed of him? Now ask yourself why he left this...with excited eyes and an open mouth.

Write down: Man, it is important to feel significant. Beside him is the woman who looks at him with enthusiasm and gusto. All around must see that he is her hero. Train your mind – this will come in handy!

10. To deprive him of personal space.

It is not surprising that he arranged for yourself a quiet corner in the toilet. Not all men like the idea of 100% merger with a precious half, especially after the stabilization of hormonal levels.

Record: the relationship is "choked" we need to leave each other space for development, recreation, new information. Every man has a plot where there is no access to the woman in principle. He carefully protects in the case of "boundary violations" or tries to defend him and "throws the intruder", or goes underground...to start to the toilet.

 

 

For women who sleep with married men, there is a special place in hellWhat the "evil eye" actually

 

If you properly recorded all ten tips, then you have a much greater chance to establish his personal life in the near future. Don't lose your notes, re-read, apply and you will have happiness! Smile because you're a real woman! published

 

Author: Pavel Kolesov

 



Source: samsebegu.ru/esli-ty-snova-odna-10-samykh-tsennykh-sovetov/

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