10 signs that Cho destroys Your relationship

What kind of relationship are traumatic and need healing, and often in the conclusion?

A relationship in which you continuously monitor, based on jealousy, distrust, fear of a partner to lose you. If the partner constantly checks your phone, emails, profiles in social networks, hacking passwords, etc., threaten to do something with you or with them is not normal and destroys you.



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A relationship where you constantly monitor your partner jealous, don't trust, you fear to lose. This can be attributed to your possible inability to be alone, alone with myself. If you are using the relationship to "plug" spiritual emptiness means, it's time to sort myself out.

Relationships in which only you take the initiative: call, write messages, offer to meet and partner only graciously agrees (or disagrees, and then you panic). This "game" is not a sign of a healthy relationship.

A relationship in which you are humiliated. This can include insults, "jokes", a demonstration partner of their superiority, the instructions on your failure and shortcomings, and physical violence. Such relations need urgently to stop and deal with the reasons why you are in such a relationship turned out.

A relationship in which you humiliate your partner. If you can't refrain from insults, indication of the shortcomings of the partner, battering, etc.— you also need to pause and understand yourself: why you do that. And if the partner is so heinous that it deserves such treatment — why are you still with him?

A relationship where you are all the time to prove something, and the partner continuously expresses "doubts". Especially if we are talking about your feelings and willingness to be together. If the partner once said something like: "don't lie to me and yourself, you don't love me," and you cry and something frantically explain — most likely, you "throw" on the negative emotions to feed their own sick ego.

A relationship in which you do not understand how and why he was. If the partner is a leading, constantly shows initiative and gives you time to recover, and you just do what he wants — quite possibly, you are not in touch with your feelings and desires. You need to pause and understand yourself.

A relationship in which you constantly "beg" for love, attention, care, and just a good attitude. If you have to prove that you are worthy of it all — chances are you have very low self-esteem, and you need to deal with it.

The relationship that you would like to change, but the partner is "deaf", like a wall. If you feel that your needs in the relationship are ignored, and the partner claims that "it's all right, do not invent"— perhaps we need to pause to look at it: is it true everything is in order, or still not quite.

The relationships that develop. Or develop from boredom and despair. "Just meetings", which for months did not progress to a life together, a civil marriage, which never passes in a registered marriage in which you never have kids and wife live together, as neighbors in the Dorm. Most likely, you need to pause and understand: maybe this "wrong" relationship? published

Author: Natalia Yudina

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