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The fact that men prefer older women young girls, explained in different ways.

Some say that the case in biology. Giving birth should be "young female". These are some are trying to pretend that men have mistresses, solely for the sake of posterity (!), or that steers them instinct (but this instinct varies from epoch to epoch), or that young giving birth the female should look like a girl in early puberty. If the men would drive, the reproductive instinct, this instinct has taken care of the survival of the offspring, that is, attracted to men to a more Mature and strong women (preferably already given birth) that can not only carry and give birth to, but also to grow the offspring. Fortunately or not, the instinct to sexual selection has virtually no relationship.

Others say that it is not so much in biology as in psychology. A real man wants to dominate, and to dominate an adult woman is more difficult than on a girl. However, it is very doubtful looks "real man" who can only dominate over the child, isn't it? Moreover, the whims, needs and complaints in young girls is usually more than adults. That is, young people often have to take care of and babysit, and if this is dominance, the dominant profession is nurses and teachers in kindergartens.

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Others say that the case in aesthetics. Youth is attractive, she has milky skin, delicate features, soft lines. Aesthetics is of course important. But what is aesthetically pleasing in one context can be repulsive in another. Bit strange when the childishness is considered aesthetically pleasing in an erotic context, isn't it? Yes, I understand that now is usual, but not quite great, if you look at it from the point of view of normal logic. And the law, too.

Referring to the fourth power! They say that only young provide energy, contaminate life, warm cold feet, the elderly, and those who are older, have less energy, plus a negative experience, regret and downloaded, and therefore to communicate with them unpleasant. The question in this case is only one. Why fans of young girls impose the unpleasant contact with them? Probably, these men believe that they have something that is worth more than youth, and women do not.

In fact, all of these versions, in spite of their stupidity, have a grain of reason.

If women offer themselves to men as the object of guardianship, the girls will always have the advantage. To take care of and easier and more pleasant for children or those who are like children. Under 18 years can not legally (and I beg you not to raise here the problem of pedophilia, you can talk about it in other places), but if a woman at 18, 20 and 25 similar to a very young girl, she would enjoy the attention of men. Other things being equal, of course, because girls are different, too, I mean nice young specimen. You yourself would like to take care of the young angel or grumpy pensioner? Still, as the object of care for children and Teens gentle approach is much better, their stupidity amuses, their weakness looks charming, their touching helplessness and their whims rather fun than annoying.

Remember to contrast "the beauty of what a fool" and "the horror, what a fool"? The fool is a young stupid girl, stupid adult stupid aunt. Just as a charming infant, and the infant is disgusting, infantile girls 18-20 years may look attractive, but the infantile grown woman is a freak, unfortunately.

In women, prolonged adolescence because of gender, their childlike charms of others and gets a lot of credit for the aesthetics and charm. While the boy gradually begin to push you around because he's acting like a "baby" or "like a girl" (this is the same, and means capricious, helpless, weak), the girl in this quality approve. Moreover, it's as if constantly make it clear that she did not want to grow up quick, maturity, to become too serious, purposeful, ambitious, strong-willed, so she kept the playfulness, levity, naivety, she for some time continued to look at men not as a grown woman and a little girl. It looks charming and collects all huskies, huskies, expressed in the material equivalent too (really small, mostly often symbolic). But the envious looks from women and admiring glances of men give a constant trickle of energy. Needless to say, it is an external resource, and from the point of view of the power of the ego is empty carbs, but still it can be some time a little to eat and it's pretty sweet to the taste.

Not only need to look at this problem too pessimistic. First, boys have this problem too. They are also very difficult to get out of infantilism, because while he's a kid, everyone wants to fulfill his whims and pricked his ego, and then suddenly start shipping with unrealistic requirements, and for many boys it happens suddenly. Sometimes only in late puberty, at the age of 18, abruptly, suddenly, the boy realizes that he looks like a goof and have to live with it, it is better to die (and nearly a third of teenage boys do have such thoughts). Girls legal infantilism is extended for ten years, sometimes less, sometimes more, depends on the girl.

Second, the fact that the girls extended time of infantilism, there are some pros, not only cons. The initiation of boys is accompanied by very strong stress, and initiation of girls is slow and gradual. The downside is that many women do not realize that this is only a postponement, and want to remain children forever. That is early and rapid initiation stressedout and sometimes even breaks some systems (hence the fleeing men in the chemical and other addiction), and extended and slow stopping at all this initiation notice and to pass (some women remain girls, although the old).

To some extent this has aesthetic implications. The boy early girl loses baby features. Slim girl, and at 25 and 30, sometimes like a very young boy. The boy — child, until he starts growing a beard does not become low voice, high growth and massive shoulders. About 16-17 years old boy is no longer a child, and a girl external changes happen much later. Yes, I would consider a typical option because there are akseleratov, and the backlog in physical development, and a particular constitutions. But on average, 18 years boy — apparently a young man, and the girl for quite a long time can look like a girl.

Initiation, as a fact, is that the child turns into an adult. Well, if it is not abruptly, not suddenly, this child should gradually become independent and responsible. If the boy managed to get it to 18, up to a maximum of 21, he will suffer persecution, not like it was in the primitive flock (where, according to some, have not undergone the initiation of the boys just ate), but will also, sometimes quite sensitive. But the initiation of the boys is clear enough — it needs to start behaving like a grown man, stop being a baby, and he usually is, to take one example, there are even options and to choose.

Female initiation as such, as if it is not, its boundaries are blurred, and so many women think they must stay with girls all my life, and when it is not possible... to find this opportunity in any medical way, or to say goodbye to the role of women in General, to become gendernoy and even asexual. That is, while for men is initiation from child to man, woman has a girl phase again phase the girl, and then woman. There is no way a grown attractive woman, or rather he is, but disassembled and the transition to this image is blurred and erased, in contrast to the clear male initiation.

Lunar women's triad of Selenium-Diana-Hecate, the waxing moon meets young Selena (or Bark, which kidnaps Pluto), the moon is full — Mature Diana, waning moon — Hecate elderly. If we consider the triad from the point of view of sexual energy, the greatest rise in libido at the age of Diana (from 30 to 45 years), up to 30 years — phase Selena. After 45 years (approximately), the Hecate phase, which is typical of a particular sexuality, about which I also ever tell. While I want to focus on the phase of Diana, which many women do not even suspect. They're trying to make Selena to 50 years, and sometimes longer. In fact, after 30 years of selenium should completely replace Diana, it is better if it happens gradually, from the age of 25.

While the body of a young woman, that is like the body of a child, her skin retains its elasticity and smoothness, even if almost no muscle, even if you have extra fat, still firmness and smoothness are present. With age, a woman must either obtain muscles and then her body will be beautiful (with any point of view will become even more beautiful, just different), or it will lose the whole stock appeal, loses its firmness and smoothness.

Similarly, the muscles of a person. While the girl is very young, it may be silly, defenseless, weak, not have housing, work, experience and knowledge, but it will still look attractive because she's young, she is a social advance, society loves youth (and childhood) and are willing to share. Boy loses these benefits quickly (before it undergoes initiation, maturing), the girl keeps longer. She can be stupid, helpless and no one can say that she is disgusting if she is twenty or twenty years. But the advance does not mean that you can do nothing. It only means that you can feel good now. And if the person suddenly decides that the advance is infinite, it is waiting for a very sad future.

Ideally to 30 years, women have gradually formed adult personality. In 25 to pretend that she's a teenager, ugly. And 35 it will cause irritation at all. Just like the boy, but that it occurs in 18-20 years old, and another difference is that at 35 a woman can pretend to be young, resorting to the tricks of beauticians and stylists. So she can steal several years. But why?

There is nothing sadder spectacle of a girl who grew old but never grew up. Of course, it will be compared with younger girls and not in her favor. But none can compare with the girl grown-up strong woman, as categories of assessment are quite different.

I later will try to tell you about Diane and about how it should happen feminine initiation. But first I want to ask you a question. What are the qualities of this image? Let's just note that we're talking about sexual triad, and not just about personality asexual character, that is, it is important to list those qualities of Diana, which can be sexually attractive, but not to be qualities of Selene, that is girls.

What is sexual attractiveness of a person? Sexual attraction are the same qualities that evoke in the observer (in this case, the hypothetical man) erotic images, paintings of passionate relationships, the desire of close interaction in a romantic space. That is, when the observer looks at the man, and he a thought about how to call that sensual interest in his side, and though it was nice, exciting, exciting, to talk in this way, and it's not just in the sexual act and all that it accompanies, precedes, all the space such a relationship exciting, then you can say that the person in the eyes of the observer sexually attractive. I understand that to analyze and formulate these things are hard, and many had never had, but let's try the other way to understand no. published 

 

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