Accidentally met an ex and found out that he is now rich, angry that I missed him

Is it worth regretting that once a relationship with a certain person did not work out? People break up for various reasons, in most cases because they cannot find a common language. No wonder psychologists say that you need to work on relationships, not expect miracles from them. Lyudmila broke up with her husband several years ago due to lack of money. And the dear ex-husband turned out to be a successful businessman soon after their breakup.



Dear ex-husband, I haven’t found a place for a month. I recently met my ex-husband and was surprised at how he changed. Artem was sitting in a cafe at a table with some young lady. I greeted him as I headed out like an old friend. Then I started looking for him on social media. It turned out that after our separation, Artem changed his place of work, and things went up. I remember with horror the reason we broke up.



For more than a year we lived with Artem in poverty. We had just graduated from university and were looking for a decent salary. I looked at my classmates who were getting married to wealthy adult men in their sophomore year, and I was jealous of them. I didn’t want to live my whole life on the bottom, so I decided to leave Artem. He seemed hopeless, though a good guy. I regret that I was so cynical then.



Then friends convinced me that I did the right thing and that Artem lost a lot when I left him. And now I realize I was wrong. Now I am consumed by resentment and anger at myself. My life is not as good as my ex-husband’s. When I told my mom about it, she just shrugged her shoulders. My mom has been waiting for me to get married and have a baby, but for two years I haven’t been able to find a mate.



Peels Envy and Resentment: I’ve always wanted to find a wealthy, smart and decent guy to have fun with. Of all the guys I've dated since Artem, none of them have been reliable. All of them were fake, insincere, although they had what I lacked with Artyom - money.



Peels When I met him, I knew he didn't resent me. The few words we used were enough to make me understand everything. What struck me the most was that he didn’t try to snarl me or offend me, but simply used a few standard phrases that are reserved for strangers. I'm nothing to him, and we have nothing to do with him. Then why do I want to talk to him alone and figure it out? We used to be close, but now we are just old acquaintances.”



Before a person understands what happiness is, he has much to lose. People learn from their mistakes and never listen to someone else’s theory about relationships. At the age of 20, you want to move mountains and see that your lover will do anything for you. This one-sided perception of relationships leads to loneliness. Together, it is easier and more pleasant to achieve, but Lyudmila did not show patience and did not support her husband when he needed her support.

Now Artem does not need a mercantile Lyuda, for sure, his current chosen one was with him in a difficult moment, and now he is happy. Some people succeed in all areas of life when they realize they can’t rely on anyone but themselves. Perhaps if Artem Lyuda hadn’t left, they would both be unhappy and poor. Do you think these people could be together again?