Give a cheating husband a second chance

If a loved one betrays for the first time, does that mean the end of the relationship? Or can we talk more, try to understand each other's mistakes, forgive, in the end? What? treason Should it be followed and does gender matter?



Women and men react differently to such situations. It's a fact. The excuses, by the way, are different. “Forever polygamous” male hunters, whom you do not feed bread, let only go to the left, because “this is their purpose.” And cunning women, who, according to them, “just lack attention and affection.” What about these characters?

The most categorical position, which, perhaps, adheres to the majority, is the breakup of relations. That men that women rarely tolerate such a serious misconduct from their partner. Statistically, it does not matter whether the affair was committed before marriage or after marriage. At least that’s what the post-Soviet statistics tell us.



Breakup, divorce and so on. While in other, mostly patriarchal countries, this is more loyal. For example, in countries where Islam is accepted. In Christian ethics, betrayal involves not only a negative attitude within the family, but also a sharp condemnation of people around them.

Internal family proceedings often translate into public discussions between relatives, friends, and sometimes even colleagues. There were cases when even relatives stopped communicating with the perpetrators of treason, and they themselves were demoted at work or even fired. Everything depended on the situation. But what if circumstances do not allow the relationship to break down?

Often women who have chosen the role of housewives are financially completely dependent on their husbands. At some point, it becomes clear even to them that their professional career has long been missed. It remains only to devote themselves to home, children and their education. In this case, male infidelity turns into a real trap.

It hurts to know that you have been betrayed. But there's nothing you can do about it. You have to endure, make concessions. At stake is not only the quality of your life, but the lives of your children. Screams, quarrels and completely spoiled relationships will not help much.



Our advice. No matter what, continue to develop yourself. The routine of living together, of course, sucks in very quickly. You have to have the will to learn something new. Go to courses, find useful information on the Internet. Interested in the acquired profession. Breaking a toxic relationship is much easier. You will have confidence in yourself and your capabilities.

Frequent trips Well, you know how this joke ends. The husband returns home after a long trip, and there. Indeed, working on a rotational basis or going to work in another country will never add passion to a relationship. Except in strangers. And this is probably the most compelling reason why few family members agree to leave their home for a long time.

No, a large number of women are really waiting for their faithful and do not even think about any other relationship. However, there are exceptions to the rule. So what do we do then?



Our advice. Try to support your woman in everything. Especially before we leave. The human mind is such that it tries to push the negative to the second level, primarily giving preference to bright moments. But if there are few positive emotions, well... Things happen in life. Contact her online every convenient minute. She'll appreciate it.

Punishment One adultery victim, who had been married to her husband for only a couple of years, was not a scandal. Just offered to rewrite her entire apartment. To protect yourself in the future. The man agreed, and they still live in the soul, because everyone understands what decision will be made in the event of something.

Another woman, learning about the betrayal on the part of the faithful, immediately began to spin schews with his friends. At the end of the story, they broke up. At the time, my ex-husband had no friendly support. The man really lost a lot: status, work, friends. It was very difficult to get out, and his psychologist became rich.



Peels One desperate man acted and quite strange. He captured all the most sensitive details of his wife’s infidelity on a hidden camera. I waited for her birthday and invited her friends, relatives and even several colleagues. And turned on the video on the big TV screen. Just minutes later, guests hurriedly started getting dressed and going outside. As a result, the husband and wife were out of favor with all involved. A wife for a misdemeanor and a husband for a vile "surprise."

Results

Relationships are always a slippery subject. Especially when it comes to cheating. There are no specific instructions on how to act in this case. At least in our country. Everyone relates to what is happening from their point of view and is free to choose any reaction. We would like to always treat your soul mate with due respect and closely monitor their behavior. Good luck and good luck!