What to do with unnecessary things of a loved one

Many people who have lost loved ones are concerned about the issue. Where to put unnecessary thingsThe ones left behind. In Slavic culture it is customary to give things of the deceased to friends and acquaintances. But sometimes, because of grief, the hand does not rise to part with the memorabilia of a dear person.



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Sooner or later there comes a time when you have to part with the things of the deceased. After all, it is known that things have the energy of their owner and can cause trouble. Most religions recommend getting rid of the things of dead people. But, before making a choice, it will not be superfluous to read the advice of the esoteric and psychotherapist Miroslava Bush.

When a person leaves, there are many different things and objects that he used. They remind us of our loss in one way or another. There is a practice in the people when after the funeral things of the deceased are handed out as a souvenir by friends and relatives, says Miroslava.





These can be things that a person used in everyday life, objects of art, dishes, watches, musical instruments, artistic and sports accessories. Such items associated with a person can be given to friends. But dishes and clothes of the deceased can not be used for their intended purpose.



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Sofa furniture or a bed on which someone died or a terminally ill person lay for a long time should definitely be destroyed. If, due to circumstances, it is impossible to do this, it is better to conduct a purification ceremony: bypass the object from all sides with a lit church candle and sprinkle it with holy water. Such furniture must be disinfected, replace the mattress and linen, make a stretch.



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Tableware, clothing and shoes You can not drink and eat from dishes, put on clothes and shoes, sleep on bed linen of the deceased. These items can be put in place to remind you of the good moments in the life of this person.

Jewelry with jewelry should be extremely careful, because they carry the energy of death. If a person was wearing these jewelry at the time of tragic death or death from a serious illness, then they should not be worn. Terrible stories related to the jewelry of the dead did not arise by chance. The energy of death is stored in jewels handed down by heirs from generation to generation, bringing trouble with them.





DepositPhotos Miroslava warns: It is extremely dangerous to use things that were present during the funeral ceremony, lying in the coffin or next to it. Such objects are buried with the deceased.

Things that caused death, such as a car in which a person died, attract failure. Even if the car is to be restored, it is impossible to drive it - it is already forever "charged" for a disaster. By the way, there is a sign among motorists: spare parts of cars that have been in an accident can not be put on their cars, because they will also get into an accident. It works, it's tested!



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Miroslav Bush does not recommend wearing a dead person’s watch. They, as a rule, stop at the time of the death of the owner and live people can not wear such an accessory. The watch can be stored in a beautiful box as a memory and taken out when you want to remember the deceased.



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Images of the dead carry negative energy, which can adversely affect the fate of the living. A portrait with a black ribbon of mourning should remain in the house for 40 days after the death of the person, then it should be hidden. You can not hang images of the dead on the wall - sensitive people may have headaches, insomnia, fears, ailments.

Of course, you can not take a photo of the deceased and keep a photo of the funeral in the house. This fills the home with the energy of death and can destroy the lives of family members of the deceased.



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Thus, everything that caused death or was at the time of death with the deceased, it is better to bury with him. Or just get rid of those things. And to leave just a souvenir, sometimes enough photos in a frame or album. There are situations when the deceased bequeathed to give this or that thing to certain people. In this case, his will must be fulfilled.



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People who have lost loved ones often do not know. placewhich are of no value whatsoever. Churches recommend distributing them to those in need or disposing of them. Children's things should be burned and not transferred to anyone, even the poor, so as not to accidentally cause even more harm to an outsider.

Here is how you should behave at a funeral to properly honor the memory of the deceased.

Sometimes the wires on the last journey are shrouded in signs and superstitions that make extra fuss during this difficult and delicate period. If you are an Orthodox believer, never follow meaningless traditions. We wish you and your family good health and long life! Share this information on social networks.

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