I called my grandmother for a serious conversation after cleaning the apartment, but she refused to sign the apartment for me.

Should I start a serious conversation with my grandmother about making a will and how to carefully bring a dialogue to the discussion of this delicate topic? This is what we are going to discuss today after reading the story of one of our readers.

For more than 12 years, Nadezhda visits her grandmother every day and helps her cope with the household. While Nadenka was still quite a baby, it was Irina Alexandrovna who was engaged in her upbringing. She instilled in her love for the theater, taught her how to cook delicious chicken patties and supported her during the most difficult periods of her life.



So while Irina Alexandrovna’s own daughter, and Nadia’s mother, is busy courting her younger son, the girl is torn between working in a bank, raising a seven-year-old son and caring for her grandmother.



Every other day she wears bags of food, cooks, washes, and once a week she always arranges a general cleaning in the apartment. No one asked the girl for that. She volunteered to help when she found out that her grandmother began to have health problems. Because I remember how much effort she spent raising her granddaughter. And I was immensely grateful to her.



Nadia never asked for anything in return. And now at work, it was reduced and it was not possible to take a planned mortgage to buy your own housing. Meanwhile, the grandmother’s apartment once had to go into ownership to the daughter of Irina Alexandrovna. She had her own home and had never cared for her sick mother in 12 years. After thinking about this, Nadia decided to start a serious conversation with her grandmother and ask her to rewrite the apartment for her.



So, one Saturday, the girl came again to conduct the general cleaning. After completing her business, Nadia directly asked her grandmother about everything. Irina Alexandrovna was terribly offended by such a conversation. The woman did not understand how her own granddaughter could grow up so mercantile. As a result, she flatly refused to fulfill the request of her granddaughter. “The apartment will go to the daughter, as it should be. And then divide it as you like, but not in front of a living hostess – this is all that Nadia heard in response.

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Hope such a sharp refusal was very upset. She's been taking care of her grandmother all along. And now that she needs her support, she turns her back.



Why do you think our hero was treated so unfairly? And after this conversation, how can I get along with my grandmother so that she does not resent her? We will be grateful if you share your ideas in the comments!