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How to Respond to People Who Criticize Your Repair
Feeling tactful In general, it is not present at all. The normal seems to be like a person, and something like that. And he is normal, and for some reason he becomes ashamed of you. What to do about it and how to react to rude and frankly rude people who consider the environment by default only their own?
Editorial "Site" I have faced such situations many times. Sometimes it is difficult to restrain yourself, you have to descend to the level of those rude people, but this is not the right way. After all, the problem of rudeness automatically becomes your problem. But sometimes there's nowhere to go. This is what a psychologist tells you.
The feeling of tact, “Let’s understand in general what tact is.” The dictionary defines this term as behaviour In accordance with moral standards, not only to follow the rules, but also to avoid unpleasant situations for other people. And this is all around us. It is enough to read the comments on YouTube under some harmless video.
People allow you to dump feces on the fan for any reason, stick your opinion everywhere - where necessary and not necessary. I wish it were something good. And there's a lot of negativity. I want to ask, is that what a man did to you, that you point a finger at him and tell him how to do it? Is it hard to keep your opinion to yourself?
Or this situation. I rented an apartment for a long time, there was not a lot of money, so the living space was quite shabby. In general, I agreed with the owners, said that I would improve a little to the best of my modest capabilities. They agreed. I took it. wallpaper And at his own expense, he glued new ones. It’s not perfect because it was the first time I did it myself.
Then I invited my friends to celebrate, one of them came with a new girl. She saw these wallpapers and said, "What kind of idiot put the wallpaper on?" I let it pass my ears and say, I roasted potatoes there and ordered pizza, the chicken is languishing in the oven, and she is again for her own. Anyway, I couldn't stand it, I got hot. "I," I say, "that idiot, you fool!" I was wallpapering!
How to keep a sense of tact Friend offended me, of course, a long time did not communicate. Later they reconciled, found out that this girl had abandoned him. I guess the wallpaper didn't go that way either. It's not that. I don’t mind criticizing my mistakes, I’m a human being, we’re all wrong. But objectively it can be done somehow carefully.
I am a very confident person and I have position. To you, I can be anything—a fool, a clever person, a strange person—your opinion of me is purely subjective. You have the right to choose whether or not to communicate with me in this whole situation, but there is definitely no right to teach me about life and tell me that I am not what you want me to be. Live your way, brother, and I'll live my way!
What to do and how to react? Probably like me with the wallpaper. I admit, I'm overheated, impulsive, sometimes boiling. In general, you could just ask the girl, they say, is it? It matters.How are these unfortunate wallpapers glued? Really, what does it do? Why are you so interested in this and why are you stupid? I am in favor of maintaining boundaries. But tactfully, we're cultural people, aren't we?
But you're giving me some advice, right? Yeah. But only when asked. Or I can see that you're in danger because, say, you decided with your bare hands to grab a bare wire to see if there's a current in it. Then I'll try to reason with you. I advise you not to do this, it is dangerous.”
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Modern ideas about tact look like this. This is the proportionality of human behavior with the feelings and actions of other people. ability to measure ownFeelings, words and intonations with the actions, feelings and intonations of others. And in short, you do not have to be a mean and old Shapoklyak.
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They say that tact Innate. We don’t believe it because it can be learned. Be sure to write in the comments what you think about this and what tactless actions you have met in life. Here’s another link on how to stick to etiquette and a few rules about it. Enjoy it and stay with us.
Editorial "Site" I have faced such situations many times. Sometimes it is difficult to restrain yourself, you have to descend to the level of those rude people, but this is not the right way. After all, the problem of rudeness automatically becomes your problem. But sometimes there's nowhere to go. This is what a psychologist tells you.
The feeling of tact, “Let’s understand in general what tact is.” The dictionary defines this term as behaviour In accordance with moral standards, not only to follow the rules, but also to avoid unpleasant situations for other people. And this is all around us. It is enough to read the comments on YouTube under some harmless video.
People allow you to dump feces on the fan for any reason, stick your opinion everywhere - where necessary and not necessary. I wish it were something good. And there's a lot of negativity. I want to ask, is that what a man did to you, that you point a finger at him and tell him how to do it? Is it hard to keep your opinion to yourself?
Or this situation. I rented an apartment for a long time, there was not a lot of money, so the living space was quite shabby. In general, I agreed with the owners, said that I would improve a little to the best of my modest capabilities. They agreed. I took it. wallpaper And at his own expense, he glued new ones. It’s not perfect because it was the first time I did it myself.
Then I invited my friends to celebrate, one of them came with a new girl. She saw these wallpapers and said, "What kind of idiot put the wallpaper on?" I let it pass my ears and say, I roasted potatoes there and ordered pizza, the chicken is languishing in the oven, and she is again for her own. Anyway, I couldn't stand it, I got hot. "I," I say, "that idiot, you fool!" I was wallpapering!
How to keep a sense of tact Friend offended me, of course, a long time did not communicate. Later they reconciled, found out that this girl had abandoned him. I guess the wallpaper didn't go that way either. It's not that. I don’t mind criticizing my mistakes, I’m a human being, we’re all wrong. But objectively it can be done somehow carefully.
I am a very confident person and I have position. To you, I can be anything—a fool, a clever person, a strange person—your opinion of me is purely subjective. You have the right to choose whether or not to communicate with me in this whole situation, but there is definitely no right to teach me about life and tell me that I am not what you want me to be. Live your way, brother, and I'll live my way!
What to do and how to react? Probably like me with the wallpaper. I admit, I'm overheated, impulsive, sometimes boiling. In general, you could just ask the girl, they say, is it? It matters.How are these unfortunate wallpapers glued? Really, what does it do? Why are you so interested in this and why are you stupid? I am in favor of maintaining boundaries. But tactfully, we're cultural people, aren't we?
But you're giving me some advice, right? Yeah. But only when asked. Or I can see that you're in danger because, say, you decided with your bare hands to grab a bare wire to see if there's a current in it. Then I'll try to reason with you. I advise you not to do this, it is dangerous.”
6689.
Modern ideas about tact look like this. This is the proportionality of human behavior with the feelings and actions of other people. ability to measure ownFeelings, words and intonations with the actions, feelings and intonations of others. And in short, you do not have to be a mean and old Shapoklyak.
38They say that tact Innate. We don’t believe it because it can be learned. Be sure to write in the comments what you think about this and what tactless actions you have met in life. Here’s another link on how to stick to etiquette and a few rules about it. Enjoy it and stay with us.