Is it worth repenting of the mistakes of youth to a husband?

How can the mistake of youth lead to a happy life and is it worth confessing to loved ones, risking forever losing their trust? This is the question that the heroine of today’s history asks for a week. Can we help her figure this out together?

Mistake of youth Nadia and Vova for more than 20 years live soul in soul. The couple never quarrels over trifles and for all acquaintances is an example of an ideal family. One could say that during all this time, none of them ever doubted the correctness of their choice, if not for one “but”.



In her youth, Nadezhda was not as passionately in love with her chosen one as she is now. It seemed to her that their relationship would not grow into anything more. So the girl allowed herself to meet another young man, from whom she later became pregnant.

Until that moment, Nadia could not decide which of the guys she wanted to stay with. And now everything falls into place by itself. It seemed that fate itself gave her a sign.



After parting with Vova, Nadezhda informed the second cavalier about the upcoming joyous event. But the future father took the news quite differently than the girl expected.



Instead of acting like a decent person, he simply disappeared from the life of our heroine, leaving her alone with bitter reflections on how she now alone raise a child and whether it is worth leaving him at all.

The girl decided to consult with her mother, without specifying any details. So Nadia’s mother, learning about her daughter’s pregnancy, immediately decided that the child was from Vova. What, in fact, and hastened to tell the future son-in-law.



Vladimir immediately proposed to Nadia and promised to become the best father in the world, if only she gave him a chance. And although the girl gladly accepted the offer, realizing her former stupidity, the fact that the reason for their resumption of relations was a secret betrayal, did not give her peace either before the wedding or after.



Many times the girl tried to confess everything. But when she looked at her husband’s affection for the baby and how happy he was, she lost all resolve. And it's been like this for over 20 years. Every time she watched her son and her husband become attached to each other, Nadia decided to postpone the unpleasant conversation until later.



Now Vladimir is seriously ill. According to the most optimistic forecasts of doctors, he has no more than a year to live. Hope realizes that she will never forgive herself unless she reveals the truth to him. But on the other hand, it seems wrong for her to overshadow the last year of her beloved’s life with a bitter truth. In addition, you will have to tell your son everything, and he is unlikely to want to communicate with his mother after so many years of living a lie.

Personally, I think that in such a situation, the truth will not lead to anything good. Why, after so many years, give a man a reason to regret that he did not live his life? If you admit to such mistakes, it is immediately or never.

Do you think our heroine should confess everything to her husband?