What an elderly gentleman came up with to live with different women and not share a pension

There is such a breed of people who likes to sit on someone’s neck and hang legs. These are dependants by vocation. Planida! You must have met on your way to life. We just have one. person who uses othersAnd that's his creed. Sometimes it is difficult to recognize immediately.



Editorial "Site" There's a pretty revealing episode. It happened to the mother of a friend of mine. Appeared in her life a kind of old cunning, someone Pavel Ivanovich. She's his whole soul, so inside out. Who knows how this would end? But it's better to tell you everything in order.

The man who uses others started out quite banal. Friends were going to visit my mother (and she, by the way, under 70) in a planned, so to speak, order. And she informs them, they say, besides you, I will have another guest, the name is Pavel Ivanovich, so behave yourselves! He's very good, by the way! Well, I get it! Mom has a boyfriend.



Pavel Ivanovich was very sociable, entertained us constantly with some stories. He seemed to know everything in the world. He said little about himself. I don't think so. We have no speakers in the family, so Pavel Ivanovich did not limit himself in anything. Anyway, soul.

Three hours later we were going home and we had our own business. The husband went with the new boyfriend for a smoke break, and the acquaintance was left with his mother alone. “You know, my mother, he is a strange man, this Pavel Ivanovich. Be careful with him. What mommy just shrugged off, like, what could that be?

Borrowed three thousand

The apotheosis of the evening was a conversation between Pavel Ivanovich and her husband - he quite unequivocally asked to borrow three thousand rubles for some spare part for a gigula, until retirement. The acquaintances, of course, were in shock. It's been two hours and he's asking for money. Well, we did. The precipitation, however, remained rather unpleasant.

However, everything was overshadowed by the joy of their mother. When she was widowed, she fell into such a deep depression that she was barely pulled out. It's probably been ten years, but now lifestyle It showed up. And logically, boyfriend. She hummed all her ears with this Pavel Ivanovich. And he is, and he is.

Friends of the mother go often, several times a week, and now every time they find a new friend there. And Mama is everything to him - and pies, and soups, and free-time. When asked why you need it, she says she's having fun with it. Tired of being alone. They were certainly surprised.



And all would be fine, but only the mother began to seriously think about that Pavel Ivanovich finally moved to her. No arguments helped. Her friend, by the way, never gave her money, she threatened to give her own. In general, the relationship began to heat up and acquaintances, perhaps, would have left everything so that my mother would not be upset if not for one. phone call.

I'm his own daughter and I know everything. daughter Pavel Ivanovich. They couldn’t figure out where she got the number. But that's not the point. With anxiety in her voice, the daughter reported that acquaintances should beware of interaction with her father, and especially not allow him to move to his mother. As it turned out, Pavel Ivanovich is still a womanizer and the last few years very successfully "lives" then one, then another passion.



She also said that the father left the family early, has the habits of a tyrant, women after a long communication with him only do that measure the pressure. This call filled our friends with determination. I've put an end, so to speak. Since it was useless to talk to my mother - I didn't believe a word they said - they went straight to Pavel Ivanovich.

He did not expect to see them, he promised to give them money soon. It just happened. Friends said that he should not return, but his mother does not appear anymore. Pavel Ivanovich tried to argue, but the question was put edge-on and hard. Friends are preparing for a real confrontation.



© Freepik But it's fine. Pavel Ivanovich dissolved into darkness. The mother of our acquaintances guessed everything, has not spoken to them for a month, but they are sure that it will pass. Better so than someone Pavel Ivanovich, who hung noodles on his mother's ears, eating her cakes and legs in full length from her neck hanged.

A man who uses others, what do you say about it? It was worth Pavel Ivanovich this way to discourage, or let the mother of friends through this disturbing experience Did you go by yourself? Be sure to share your opinion in the comments, we want to know how you feel! Pavel Ivanovich is also invited to the discussion.



A person who uses othersPeople call it a simple and understandable word - parasite. After all, this is also a form of social survival, it is likely to be impossible to exclude it. A great bonus will be our material about the pros and cons of marriage in old age. Thank you for staying with us!