What bride did my son leave in Germany and not want to bring home?

Dreaming of a happy future for their children, parents do not always consider their opinion. And when the child grows up and leaves the cozy nest in search of his, better life, the doors of the parental monastery knock. hopeless. Unfortunately, not everyone is able to adequately accept this.



And then there may be problems in the family. Our history today is a vivid confirmation of that. In it you will learn about a married couple who thinks in terms of the material, and their adult son, who is closer to the spiritual component of life. I wonder which side you'll end up on?

I gave birth to a son at a fairly mature age. My husband and I knew it was a big responsibility. We had to do everything to make the child happy. Step by step we were moving towards that goal, and, you know, we were good at it! They lived very well, in abundance, warmth and comfort.

Misha studied well, graduated from school with a gold medal and entered a prestigious capital university. Teachers and teachers all praised our bully: “If he continues in this spirit, he will have a great future!” That's what happened!



Immediately after graduation, Mishke made an unusual offer. There was an opportunity to go to practice abroad. The prospect of the sea! My son agreed without even thinking. My husband and I flew with happiness. Our beloved son can not only build a career, but also find a good wife.

So Misha left. To be honest, I was very afraid of losing contact with him, so I often called my son. He was happy and always talked about his news. After six months of active work in the company Misha offered to sign a contract. It seems that life became as we imagined it.



And then more! One day Mishka called and sniffed that he began to communicate with one girl. And she was not a who, but the daughter of the boss. Think of it! He said he planned to propose to her and marry her.

Just a couple of months later, Misha came home without warning. He said he wanted to surprise you. My husband and I were very happy. I made a quick dinner, and the next day my son told me he was going to meet some friends. Honestly, I didn't really like this idea. But I can't stop my grown-up son from going anywhere.



So he left. The next morning he came all wrinkled, but so happy. “Mom, Dad, I think fortune smiled at me. I found her! – almost shouted Misha. I was speechless at that moment.

It turned out that somewhere in the city the son met his first love Olesya. This is a school story with a not so pleasant ending. The fact is that the girl was from a poor family. I didn’t want them to talk at all, let alone think about the future after high school. I had to talk to her parents and pressure them. By some miracle, Olesya untied herself from Misha. But he was killed for a long time. And now she's back!



“You can’t leave everything and stay with her!” Think about the future! I said almost crying. But my son didn't care. He replied that he was not going to fulfill our far-fetched dreams and left. For a long time he did not want to communicate. I couldn't find a place.

And then he called himself and again announced his intentions. Misha said he was not going to go anywhere else, would look for work in his homeland and plan a wedding. At one point, my husband and I turned into broken hopes. I can’t believe this happened to my family.

When the life position of parents and children is different, it is normal. It would be much stranger if the adult son of the main characters constantly followed their desires and whims. Of course, in this situation, one can understand the frustration of the mother and father. In fact, their child’s actions are somewhat rash. This is his life and it is up to him to live it. Agreed?



Tell me in the comments, what would you do in the place of the parents of the main character? What do you think: what should be guided by choosing a life partner? Soul and heart or calculating mind? Wait for you downstairs!