Wise advice about parenting that every mother should know!

Yuliya Gippenreyter - Doctor of Psychology, Professor of Moscow State University. MV Lomonosov Moscow State University, and she has a very wise woman who can give good advice on the issue of education of children. Her knowledge will help you to grow a happy child. His experience of it is divided in a number of scientific publications and in his lectures. We have collected for you 17 sayings of the wise woman.

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• Raising a child - it's not taming. I do not like the verb "to educate" . Think of Michelangelo's fresco of God Created by Adam. Their hands are about to meet; powerful, muscular hand of God rushes to the outstretched hand of Adam. Adult - the carrier of knowledge, wisdom, ethical principles. And it transmits all this to your child.
  
  
  
  • When the child has grown and can live independently, an adult should push his hand. Because the hand of the child has already found its own power. He is an individual person. Parental mission is over. Education - it is child abuse. Each child a process of reflection, its rate of development, growth. We can not interfere in this process, the more messy intervene. This means to break it! Parents should be helpers: it's like a plant - it needs to feed, protect, and do not pull the apex, take your time. About disobedience
    
    • Disobedience - the only thing that a child may oppose misuse it. angry to get the attention of Teenage fashion similar to chickenpox Discipline not before, but after the establishment of good relations Your baby needs a negative experience Children often think that their parents - "Iron Felix» About the self-esteem
      
      • Self-esteem of the child measured his actions. But the child can not live with a poor opinion of yourself About school
        
        • The school as an organization is not interested in the development of creative thinking and the child's independence. When a child is forced, threatened, when the teacher says: "I do not translate to the next grade" or "All the learned, and why are you so stupid?" - In the child's fear and instill a sense of inferiority. He lost the energy, the desire to do something. Therefore, parents have to make a choice: either stand on the side of the school, or to the side of the child. Inspire - that is the task of the adult. If the school does not do this, it means that parents have to do - at least the first steps in this direction. To release the child from prinudilovki, tell him: "You do not have». One of the participants of my workshops told me that it caused a teacher and began to scold her son: he is so-and-so, He and the fifth and tenth. But this mom just said: "You know, Nina, I love my boy!" And Nina stopped. This is one answer. There is another opposite. "Thank you all told me this, I see your strong desire to help my child get out of this unpleasant situation. I'll do what you told me. " Then come in and say, "You must have noticed an improvement, and I am too. I'm sure it is because of your efforts ». < Teachers are people too. The school - it's time. And your relationship with the child - forever.
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