9 discoveries that I have made, having worked in an orphanage

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During his time there, I realized more and realized as something that has become a real discovery for me, as for example that:

Pity - the worst feeling you can feel for a person, especially to an orphan child.
Opening number 1 was when I met these children more closely. < I realized that even the youngest of them is stronger than me.
Being a student of Pedagogical University, in the third year, I held camp practice. Among other health institutions was "Chaika" camp, which belonged to the children's boarding school, and I by chance got it there.
< Go to the orphans was a little anxious, exciting
. And you know what? I was not sorry for them. Absolutely. They are strong, courageous, witty, funny and cheerful, as it may appear to regret their desire? No, definitely only admire and enjoy their success!



< Children 2-3 years old can eat, dress and even try to fill the bed alone.
I mainly worked with the age group of 6 to 12, but a month I had to stay with toddlers kids, and it was the first month of my work at all. Let me remind you that my experience, that is, their own children, I did not. So I thought it was a matter of course, when children are independent.

< The opening number 2 caught up with me to another shift, when I'm in the lobby of the school waited for my change of notation rebyatnya and scatter classes. < / I watched the following scene: the boy is 12 years old, quite tall and strong, and his mother pulls his pants. Mama. Pants. Tightens. I stood there and remembered how my beauty - Basistaya Gipsy two years old - pulls my hand when I tried it to fasten buttons of help to dress: she was ashamed, you see, it was. And it is probably no.



< A couple of child-adult someone is sure to be manipulated by another. The first time in a shelter for me, ended in tears and a nervous tic.
I just can not cope with the ten angels that as soon realized that I was very good and an aunt of me can weave ropes, turned six hours of hell. The climax was the quiet hour. These little shameless walked on their heads, jumped on the bed and laughed slyly, as sensed my weakness. Remember the pity? So I went to replace, spare them, as they seemed to me so defenseless and harmless, but in vain. In general, it is necessary to understand, or you boss, or subordinate to, or in any way.



< the Command tone better learn before the time comes when it is needed.


The first thing to give a child, when he had a fever -. A drink of water One day at the evening crawling nurse discovered that several children little fever. For some of them this was the real beginning of a cold, but the rest of the drink enough water to cool down, and the temperature dropped to normal range. Opening number 5 made it clear that the hot forehead and the absence of other symptoms of ill health can indicate banal overheating, dehydration. No wonder doctors are advised to drink plenty of liquids during most diseases, well, not in vain!



Most children appreciate the hugs, kisses and time to talk to them from the heart, and not expensive things, travel, food and so on.
But that's not the point, is not it. Opening number 6 was not a particular situation, just trust me, if the child is concerned with the question: "Who is stronger: Spider-Man and Teenage Mutant Ninja Turtles?", You have to get serious answer. If he wants to hug you and you're busy with something, you have to hug.



you can lose credibility if say one thing and do another.


None of daily outdoor games in the fresh air you get a hard naughty child
If the weather was bad and we did not go for a walk, I have always saved the phrase "Well, who is greatest among you will overcome?»


Genetics -. A powerful thing, but it may be more attention to the number and the correct approach to education.
Her eyes were wild fire, and outdoor games not much help, to be honest. Of course, it eventually trimmed a bit, but still then everyone said - genetics, they say, nothing can be done: hooligan born hooligan remain. And then after a while she was taken to a foster family. And about a year at one of the girl's morning acted as a guest. < I do not recognize her right away.
It's been a different person.


Play with the kids, show them the tricks, to braid pigtails, listen to their problems, resolve their conflicts - all of that was my job, although this is not written in the job description. It was about what I should do with them lessons, monitor their health and to perform general schedule

Raising a child -. process much more significant than making money.
Fed, well-dressed and visiting the different sections of the kids can be in children's homes. < Do not forget to give her the most important thing - the love, care and attention


. Karina Hyles specifically for AdMe.ru Photos on the preview: Warner Bros. Pictures





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