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7 things that do not impress
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- I began to look at the world a little differently since both decided to do fewer things. I looked at a different angle to the way society defines success. Too often, those who earns, spends and saves the most, automatically become "successful».
But it's bad. I know some wonderful people who have decided not to focus on the material things - and that is why they are not considered successful.
As we are very deeply embedded dependent on public approval. And so many people look for a more "decent" employment, erecting a kind of facade of success.
Here is a list of things that do not impress me anymore:
1. Brand clothes I'll never understand why it is so important to the brand name on the label clothes. Very often, people are paying for the opportunity to become a walking billboard.
2. The number of carats jewelry In my new book has a chapter about Brian and Nicole, who are married for 5 years, and every day something currently denied in order to pay off the debt for a wedding ring . Maybe someone and admired the size of the stone, but most of it did not even notice. Is it worth it for such efforts?
3. The cost of the car Of course, the safety of the car is very important, especially if we spend a lot of time there. But now, luxury and sports cars are something more than just a means of transportation, for example, now it is likely a good way to 60 seconds cause the admiration of strangers, until the red signal light.
4. The house Private house - the guarantor of stability and peace, and I was really proud when he bought a house for his family. But a few years ago, we moved into a smaller house, and I have never regretted this decision. When I pass by a mansion, then I remember, we are happy in our small and cozy nest.
5. The size of the bank account The absolute measure of success in the modern world is the size of personal wealth. We are not the first in this approach: such standards existed at all times. But, perhaps, the amount of accumulated funds in a bank account is not a measure of success? May, the number of good deeds that we are able to make over a lifetime - where the best measure?
6. Model mobile phone Just the other day I was walking in the park with their children and their friends. I was very surprised, but the most talked about technologies rebyatnya. «What is your iPhone? What is the model of an iPod? Guess who's birthday gave a new smartphone? »
7. Photos social networks Almost every publishes a beautiful picture of his life - from new clothes and restaurant meals to photos from the concerts and aircraft wings. These pictures are selected carefully and are published only the most interesting moments. Strange, but then we blame glossy magazines and advertising excessive use of Photoshop, while yourself compulsory edit their lives before sharing them on social networks.
Let's try to impress and inspire others is not our things, and their own lives and experiences.
via www.becomingminimalist.com/not-impressive/
3. The cost of the car Of course, the safety of the car is very important, especially if we spend a lot of time there. But now, luxury and sports cars are something more than just a means of transportation, for example, now it is likely a good way to 60 seconds cause the admiration of strangers, until the red signal light.
4. The house Private house - the guarantor of stability and peace, and I was really proud when he bought a house for his family. But a few years ago, we moved into a smaller house, and I have never regretted this decision. When I pass by a mansion, then I remember, we are happy in our small and cozy nest.
5. The size of the bank account The absolute measure of success in the modern world is the size of personal wealth. We are not the first in this approach: such standards existed at all times. But, perhaps, the amount of accumulated funds in a bank account is not a measure of success? May, the number of good deeds that we are able to make over a lifetime - where the best measure?
6. Model mobile phone Just the other day I was walking in the park with their children and their friends. I was very surprised, but the most talked about technologies rebyatnya. «What is your iPhone? What is the model of an iPod? Guess who's birthday gave a new smartphone? »
7. Photos social networks Almost every publishes a beautiful picture of his life - from new clothes and restaurant meals to photos from the concerts and aircraft wings. These pictures are selected carefully and are published only the most interesting moments. Strange, but then we blame glossy magazines and advertising excessive use of Photoshop, while yourself compulsory edit their lives before sharing them on social networks.
Let's try to impress and inspire others is not our things, and their own lives and experiences.
via www.becomingminimalist.com/not-impressive/
5. The size of the bank account The absolute measure of success in the modern world is the size of personal wealth. We are not the first in this approach: such standards existed at all times. But, perhaps, the amount of accumulated funds in a bank account is not a measure of success? May, the number of good deeds that we are able to make over a lifetime - where the best measure?
6. Model mobile phone Just the other day I was walking in the park with their children and their friends. I was very surprised, but the most talked about technologies rebyatnya. «What is your iPhone? What is the model of an iPod? Guess who's birthday gave a new smartphone? »
7. Photos social networks Almost every publishes a beautiful picture of his life - from new clothes and restaurant meals to photos from the concerts and aircraft wings. These pictures are selected carefully and are published only the most interesting moments. Strange, but then we blame glossy magazines and advertising excessive use of Photoshop, while yourself compulsory edit their lives before sharing them on social networks.
Let's try to impress and inspire others is not our things, and their own lives and experiences.
via www.becomingminimalist.com/not-impressive/
7. Photos social networks Almost every publishes a beautiful picture of his life - from new clothes and restaurant meals to photos from the concerts and aircraft wings. These pictures are selected carefully and are published only the most interesting moments. Strange, but then we blame glossy magazines and advertising excessive use of Photoshop, while yourself compulsory edit their lives before sharing them on social networks.
Let's try to impress and inspire others is not our things, and their own lives and experiences.
via www.becomingminimalist.com/not-impressive/
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