38 brutal facts about love and relationships, which will have to come to terms

Yes, love and relationships - it's not always easy, but the editorial team is confident that the realization of some cruel truths always goes on polzu.Otnosheniya man - it is not easy. They are never simple. They require compromises. They claim infringement of their interests in the interests of your partner.

Our culture has taught us that love - that feeling. But the reality is that love - this is actually the action. We constantly have to prove it in practice. The only way she could live.





Here is a list of 38 hard truths about relationships that will help you create a healthy expectations.

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Sometimes you will feel terrible indifference, irritation or indifference to the husband / wife.

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This means that you realize that you can him / her to lose.

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It's just a thought. Their appearance is natural and happens to everyone. But this does not mean that these thoughts are true. Most often, they are - a product of fear.

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Remember, real love - it's always a pendulum. Today, it seems that you can not live without this person, but sometimes you want to never see him no more. The greater the experience of living together, the easier it is to accept the reality and the "cage" called "family».

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Many people inevitably compare their attitude with respect to another. But be very careful that we all lay in social networks only the best moments of life. And if your friend went to live with a charming girl who looked like Angelina Jolie, it does not mean that it all smooth, and so, as in the photo.

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And you inevitably will project the pain on each other. All of us - just a mirror of our inner world. And in this mirror is usually not less bad than good.

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It does not solve any problems. Both of you must continue to grow and develop to the relationship became stronger.

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The feeling of love for children will have its ebbs and flows. The dynamics in the relationship is not always the same. And the children will inevitably change your daily routine. Not in your favor.

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Wait. They will grow. And it will be easier.

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Think of these ideas as part of spiritual growth.

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Once you srastetsya two in one family, will come to understand that a solid, stable financial foundation under their feet is more important than entertainment.

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You just need to learn how to maintain it.

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We'll have to look for ways of healing from past hurts. The only way your relationship can grow stronger.

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You will witness the aging process. And for another person to watch is easier than for a.

Your wife sooner or later there will be wrinkles, sagging body parts, scars. This can be a source of grief and frustration. And it can be a source of joy, of course, if you will celebrate and be proud of how long ago together.

After reading this list, it is not clear why do people agree on long-term relationships. Do not it be easier to have one (-th)?

Yes, it is easier, safer and less risky. But the close, intimate relationships, the ability to love and be loved - it is an opportunity for you to grow significantly over the former.

Relationships - this is a gift and a privilege. Which, however, not everyone is able to enjoy. And the main mistake most people who decide to get a divorce - in the inflated expectations. And the reluctance to support growth and to invest in the relationship.

So save yourself somewhere in this list. Let it serves to remind you that life - it's not ideal. It is - it is better.

via lifter.com.ua/post/1450