Healthy children how to raise a child-optimist Bashny.Net

There are some rules "NEVER..."

never tell your child: "What have you done!" Shout rude and non-constructive criticism and discourage the desire to correct the mistake.

never sculpt labels: "Loser!", "Man!", "Simpleton!", "Stupid!", "Clumsy!", "A messy Marvin." etc. Remember — the child trusts you, if you think about it, these labels can stick for life.

never place the first place the shortcomings and failures of the baby: "You always interrupt me...", "are You deaf?", "Don't you understand that...", "drawing anything, but then you played wrong, and the cow is there blue?!" The emphasis on the failures erase the program success in a child's life.

never break off the child's attempts to tell you what interests him: "Oh, you again with her doll, there's better read a book...", "Leave me alone, I'm tired...".

never, even in the worst nightmares, do not compare your child with another son or another daughter that, "advanced", the girl that "always-all-do-how-should". This is a completely different "patterns".



And what better to do?

Wake up with the kids with joy, and be alert to the best moment of the morning: funny Sunny Bunny, fabulous room, flooded with sunshine, the cheerful toiler washing machine, carefully humming kettle etc.

encourage children to see the beauty around himself for a walk: a beautiful flower, blue sky, cute purring cat, strong and kind daddy's hands etc.

laugh more and play with the children in a fun game — it is their natural language. Kids love fun! As a mom who has let herself "off", the game with the child, usually, feels rejuvenated.

any difficulties and failures to parse, starting with the recognition of the success of the child, for example: "you did well here this caterpillar — like living! And here is a frog here is a little fix and it'll be great!"

teach children to dream and encourage the development of bold imagination. "Son, what if our car suddenly started to fly? Pressed the button — and — rraz! Flew to the monkeys! Pressed — Eee — two! Already in the desert! What would you do there?"



correctly extinguish the manifestation of the whims on the stage of their origin, and best of all — prevoshodit. To achieve this, you need to analyze the real possibilities of the child, your parenting style, highlight frequently occurring problem situations and consider other ways of resolution.

Tatiana Egorova

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