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Security is not just a fad, it is a vital need of the body, allowing it to develop.

In a relationship where there is respect where the depreciation and insults, I'm not talking about violence, all the participants of the relations are stuck in the neurosis. Because the only thing that can develop under such conditions, the body is the thickness of the helmet, the length of the spikes and the accuracy of the guns defense. In war as in war.

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Accordingly, while the body is busy with security and expansion of the Arsenal of self-defense, his potential is wasted on it. And cannot be spent for anything else. And only under conditions that do not need to be protected, it is not necessary to repel the attacks, the body can afford to realize their potential in other, peaceful purposes, for example, the disclosure of talents, training, professional realization, etc.

Neurosis is a way to create safety in order to be able to develop for peaceful purposes. There is no danger of a neurosis is not needed.

The other side of the relationship — a healthy attachment provides the ability to have a safe person on which to develop, because in isolation, without other information and sensory stimulation, the body is not getting enough incentives for their development. Thus, one part of the potential that could develop yourself and others for good, spent to create such affection. If the partners to each other are correct, then it is not necessary to create another neurosis to hold each other close.

Secure and stable relationships in which there is no violence and betrayals is the key to realizing the potential of both partners.

And what for, you tell us all this development? It is very simple. It has a direct relationship to the existential needs of man. We are all mortal and life itself makes no sense. Death afraid of the one who does not realize its potential until today. Moreover, his life an empty and meaningless, and it leads these people into despair, making life even more meaningless.

 

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It is the realization of human potential in a stable and safe relationship that helps to solve all existential problems.

 

Author: Anna Paulsen

P. S. And remember, just changing your mind — together we change the world! ©

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