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It has long everything that needs to be long: feet, hair, nails. h3> It all round, which must be rounded (out of modesty will not list). She goes on dates with no underwear, so she had to face an enigmatic smile and sexy aura enveloped her from head to toe. She earns a decent and stylish looks. It emits only positive energy. We can say that it all beautiful: the face and mind, and the soul, and clothing. But she did not stop, she is incessantly improving! She already holds a "positive thinking", that is, cuts off any negative thoughts and feelings that her visit. And almost learned to love yourself.

Anything else and it does not remain. Because, in addition to himself, no one to love her. For all its merits, it did not manage to get married. She begins to suspect that these men are extinct. And it is ready to go to study in the "Bitch School».

This is a portrait of modern girls of marriageable age from 20 to 50 years. They are getting bigger, the same single "clever and beautiful," find their dream female happiness. And the first who responded to moan lonely hearts proved Market. About love and family were transmission and talk shows. Glamour Literature is replete with tips: where to find a husband, how to catch and under what sauce to prepare for marriage. But especially rampant psychological training.

«Dream Factory" stamped "puppet" one patterns. h3> I remember in junior high we were taken to the toy factory. There was a shop where they made plastic PUPS. They glued the two halves. To the left was a pile with the ass, right - with people. Factory worker looking away took a half left, half right, hop - and ready. Then exactly the same, eyeless, bezrotye doll crawling through the pipeline to the coloring. Perhaps psychological training guided by the same principle: whether the standard, and you will easily find your soul mate?

In recent years, all interested in how to achieve happiness in his personal life. Some complain about the fate of others - men, but absolutely all want simple recipes: a need to be in a relationship with a man - bold and active, or soft and waiting? What strategy to choose, so it does not slipped? As a "put the squeeze" a man before marriage? And the main question: what are "dolls" are currently the greatest demand?

According to the author's claims and ambitions of these issues is possible to predict their fate. No love they do not shine. Neither love nor happiness ... never. Because the most of today's young ladies of marriageable age and their potential suitors struck very dangerous disease. His name - infantilism , and it surely is sweeping the planet. From it is safe ..... no, no innocent maiden from him no medicine, but it cripples and destroys the life fate.

Infant - an adult person on the passport, but with children's values ​​and attitudes. h3> A terrible infantilism that does not allow a person to grow to Person. View of the world, people living at the Infanta simplistically flattened.

He's lying! Infantile man is capable of a maximum of a hobby. h3> Feelings Infante can be compared with a sparkler that quickly flashes brightly lit and as quickly extinguished. Looking at the charred wand Infante decides that he again had no luck. Maybe that's why Infanta no one can be in a serious relationship for a long time

Infante never say, "I do not understand people." He says: "People do not understand me». H3> So Infante outside world does not see, and comes up with. However, he himself invents. It drops in your mind a certain image, far from reality.

Probably, each surrounded by a man who as a child inspired relatives which he is a talented and extraordinary. The life of such a person, as a rule, does not add up, and his fate is never the same as it sees it. And all because of his fantasies about his own dazzling well, does not correspond to reality.

Today, the role of female genital soul relatives took the popular psychological training and psychological literature. They will explain what a treasure you should feel themselves to be successful. You must believe that you are charming, attractive and downright attracts love darling! Well, what if there is no confirmation of this ... Get out of doubts and fears away smart and sober thought - they are not positive.

Modern man no less infantile than women. h3> It would seem, what's the problem? Met with Infante Infante, they have the same values, why do not they get married? But no, they are negatively charged electrons repel each other!

Lady, persuaded himself that it a gift that can decorate the life of any man, really need to find someone who can sit on the neck. Who would it contain, protect, without ceasing to understand ... A man Infante why this burden? Life in our time is not a problem, from a practical point of view of a woman in the household is not needed. And ladies around a dime a dozen. You can spend time together perfectly - it is comfortable with this young lady. And until she gets him to get married.

If all the Infanta married life together will be based on the principle of someone who "peremanipuliruet»

Real men eat, but tell me, why should a living person doll? h3> I wonder where did the legend that all people get married, and marry only for love? There is sexual attraction. There is a passion. There is "he (she) likes me." There is a fear of loneliness. There is a "think so." There are common interests or social circle ... Love is something to do with it ?!

In fact, most people need a partner for sharing

Love is, but it is not for Infante. h3> This is an adult feeling. It can not be bought, it can not get to pull, do not steal, do not otberesh not beg. Before him, only to ripen. Grow.

Only pain can make a person change. Thus, the pain of his own stupidity makes grow wiser, the pain from his cold - warm up. Infante is afraid of suffering. So lonely "clever and beautiful" nothing to do but to follow the covenant "Stay such as it is" well-known songs. She was cold and scared, she is getting older, but remains "as is».

Do not be afraid to meet face to face with life and escape from this meeting. Let the unknown abyss in front of you, it is better to take all their doubts and fears than eke out a miserable gray existence.



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