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Why smart women, usually alone? The answer is actually very simple!
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Many seemingly smart and pretty girls asking: "Why are all of my friends have already married, and I'm still lonely?" Really, what's the deal? Why do men rarely choose women who can compete with them and with whom have something to talk about? What's wrong with a strong and independent woman?
In one of his articles for well-known foreign edition financial reporter John Carney reveals the secret of this phenomenon: «The fact that successful men tend to build relationships with the less successful women not because they want to be the girl was stupider, but simply because they need a person who would not put his career ahead of their family responsibilities ». i> In short, most men need a woman to be foolish enough to its list of priorities, did not hesitate to put his chosen in the first place. Smart women, unfortunately, do not often manage to combine the role of a good wife and careerists. They are not willing to make such sacrifices, while the other representatives of the beautiful half of humanity throw everything and make concessions to the man. They are not interested in gender equality or other troubles, they simply adore men and consider them to be their saviors.
Besides smart women often take everything too seriously and take everything to heart, they have a complex character ... While simpleton, so to speak, do not take the heavy hands, and wrong in the head. Frankly, with such men the girls a lot easier.
During a social experiment, which was attended by about 120 study, British researchers found that women with a high level of intelligence is difficult to create a strong, happy and long lasting relationship. Their intelligence is often a stumbling block. The study also showed that men intellect, on the contrary, is an advantage that attracts the opposite sex.
It's no secret that in our society there are many stereotypes that do not allow us to consider a woman as a person equal to man. Moreover, in the past, intelligent and educated women, even ridiculed.
In addition, the root of the problem lies in the very smart and girls. They have a little just a good guy. They need something more. They want a man who could become a competitor in the intellectual duel with whom it would be interesting to talk about this and that, who could understand and support.
British Minister of Science and Higher Education, David Willetts argues that successful women often choose less successful partners, as they are more in need of a moral than financial support.
Each side wants to be the best in relationships. Men usually do not like when a woman takes control in their fragile hands. Representatives of the stronger sex want to feel superior. Men unusual jaws back and be in second place. They do not like when their darling and then argue with them, indicating that they do, or, God forbid, makes them feel miserable or useless. That is why the woman appears before a choice: either to give up the man, or to remain a proud but lonely.
The fruits of intelligence are often huge ambitions, which often give rise to contempt for others. First, smart women neglect love and relationships, and then bite your elbows. Meanwhile, silly girls do not waste time and take his life. While some try to conquer the career peaks, while others set the stage for domestic bliss. Smart girls are trying to compensate frustrated privacy successful career, but, alas, it does not bring them happiness.
Of course, there are exceptions. Many intelligent women still manage to find a balance, and not only be successful in a career, but also a happy family life. Professor Eileen Pollack said that in our world there is a stereotype that women somehow can not be both smart and beautiful. Unfortunately, most of us take it for granted and do not even trying to contradict this.
However, there are a lot of life in smart, successful, happy and beautiful women, who spread the universal opinion to the nines. Simply, much depends on the woman. Even the most intelligent woman, if she loves, must sometimes show their feminine weakness, and from time to time to give the power into the hands of men. Tell us about this article to all those who have long been concerned about this issue.
www.thewire.com/national/2011/03/why-do-smart-men-date-less-intelligent-women/35597/
In one of his articles for well-known foreign edition financial reporter John Carney reveals the secret of this phenomenon: «The fact that successful men tend to build relationships with the less successful women not because they want to be the girl was stupider, but simply because they need a person who would not put his career ahead of their family responsibilities ». i> In short, most men need a woman to be foolish enough to its list of priorities, did not hesitate to put his chosen in the first place. Smart women, unfortunately, do not often manage to combine the role of a good wife and careerists. They are not willing to make such sacrifices, while the other representatives of the beautiful half of humanity throw everything and make concessions to the man. They are not interested in gender equality or other troubles, they simply adore men and consider them to be their saviors.
Besides smart women often take everything too seriously and take everything to heart, they have a complex character ... While simpleton, so to speak, do not take the heavy hands, and wrong in the head. Frankly, with such men the girls a lot easier.
During a social experiment, which was attended by about 120 study, British researchers found that women with a high level of intelligence is difficult to create a strong, happy and long lasting relationship. Their intelligence is often a stumbling block. The study also showed that men intellect, on the contrary, is an advantage that attracts the opposite sex.
It's no secret that in our society there are many stereotypes that do not allow us to consider a woman as a person equal to man. Moreover, in the past, intelligent and educated women, even ridiculed.
In addition, the root of the problem lies in the very smart and girls. They have a little just a good guy. They need something more. They want a man who could become a competitor in the intellectual duel with whom it would be interesting to talk about this and that, who could understand and support.
British Minister of Science and Higher Education, David Willetts argues that successful women often choose less successful partners, as they are more in need of a moral than financial support.
Each side wants to be the best in relationships. Men usually do not like when a woman takes control in their fragile hands. Representatives of the stronger sex want to feel superior. Men unusual jaws back and be in second place. They do not like when their darling and then argue with them, indicating that they do, or, God forbid, makes them feel miserable or useless. That is why the woman appears before a choice: either to give up the man, or to remain a proud but lonely.
The fruits of intelligence are often huge ambitions, which often give rise to contempt for others. First, smart women neglect love and relationships, and then bite your elbows. Meanwhile, silly girls do not waste time and take his life. While some try to conquer the career peaks, while others set the stage for domestic bliss. Smart girls are trying to compensate frustrated privacy successful career, but, alas, it does not bring them happiness.
Of course, there are exceptions. Many intelligent women still manage to find a balance, and not only be successful in a career, but also a happy family life. Professor Eileen Pollack said that in our world there is a stereotype that women somehow can not be both smart and beautiful. Unfortunately, most of us take it for granted and do not even trying to contradict this.
However, there are a lot of life in smart, successful, happy and beautiful women, who spread the universal opinion to the nines. Simply, much depends on the woman. Even the most intelligent woman, if she loves, must sometimes show their feminine weakness, and from time to time to give the power into the hands of men. Tell us about this article to all those who have long been concerned about this issue.
www.thewire.com/national/2011/03/why-do-smart-men-date-less-intelligent-women/35597/
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