The problem of clever women Bashny.Net

In modern culture pretty woman knows exactly what "Woe from Wit". If the creation of an atmosphere of responsibility, strength of spirit, consistency of actions is a priority for the woman, she immediately faced opposition from a large part of men. Men are beginning to ignore the wise woman, not to allow it to their world, and often in varying degrees, to avenge her punished for "stupidity" of its intelligent behavior. Once a man understands that a clever woman he could not even stay a fool sometimes, it begins to displace it out of his sight. I'm not talking about tomfoolery and childishness, intelligent woman is rich in humor and she is not averse to fool around, but the banal stupidity.
The fact is that self-respecting woman, and her self-esteem is a consequence of the mind ceases to play with men like a woman in typical games based on guilt. It aims to create an honest and open relationship that often do not need men who prefer women expect from unsubstantiated praises in his address and unconditionally cancel all nonsense.

Men are able to recognize a woman's mind is dangerous for themselves from the very first of its words or movements. The interviewee may even do not reflect, but the non-verbal message her face, hands, gait, body - very eloquently and intelligibly. Mind reveals new facets of a woman's personal understanding of beauty, freedom, a new way to enjoy life. A woman can not ignore it, so do not be able to hide. On the other hand, the behavior of the surface in the same way women and expressive playing on an easy access to the contact while the smart woman is not inclined to do something deliberately simple, that simply can not be.

The reaction of men to the presence of intelligent women sometimes surprising and funny (when it is not disgusting and rude). They literally can not hear what she said, did not notice her actions is called - negatively hallucinate. It is sometimes surprising themselves. Express intelligent woman thought literally perceived as his own and claims authorship of women declared absurd. He can not say hello or to turn back and genuinely surprised to see his "mistake", from which close to concealed or unconcealed irritation.

Killing games on feelings of guilt are adequate, historically mechanism for women's survival in the physical and social supremacy of men. You need to be a little mommy to muzhchinki, in some contexts take responsibility for his actions to cause it to infantile behavior. As soon as a man begins to make a fool of, after his terrible scandal forgiven all his idiotic antics, and with it forgiveness, puts a leash on her neck, woven from the debt of gratitude and guilt.

Stupid men are satisfied with this situation - it gives them a chance to not grow without spending often difficult introspection, it makes it possible to delegate the responsibility for all the failures in the "Mummy", and attributed all the credit himself. Failure by the rules of the game are welcomed and woman's woven threads in the new leash, providing silly, but cunning woman confidence in the future: "With this idiot, I shall not be gone."

But a clever woman does not want to live with an idiot who fear it like the plague. More precisely, in the clever woman men are afraid of the obvious need to answer for their actions in the first place to himself. It is the fact that stupidity does not have to answer to themselves and to the "mom" does babyu game in leash so attractive to men. Because the "mommy" can somehow get around (within a leash) and myself did.

As a result, smart women who refuse Babi games and looking for honest relationships are preemption society. In the field of public merrymaking stupid but cunning woman is not perceived as the smartest competitors. Clever are not willing to "play by the rules," and because of this, in these "rules" that form the non-free, dependent relationship between men and women, clever "lose" not finding a pair.

What a pity. Woman, do not play the game like a woman - beautiful! She can be trusted, it will never be a test you, because she appreciates the trust. She is able to understand what forgiveness is much more important. It is demanding to himself no less, and even more than you, so you do not need to control her actions. She honestly tell you the truth not only about you but also about yourself. You can only feel sorry for men, changing their freedom for the right to spend a fool on a string. I do not think that the situation of the male fear of women as intelligent social trend may change in the near future, although the movement to adult men in society there.
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