... On the women's dependence and independence! Bashny.Net

Her eyes shine, and your heart rate increases ALREADY, although she had not even left the house. She can not look away because it already feels like inside it all breaks. She believes every minute during a meeting, mentally praying that she would not end as long as possible because already miss him. She was not released from the hands of the mobile for a second, because from the moment of parting had been two hours, and he has never phoned. And, of course, she naively believes that this is the love, not knowing that these feelings have nothing to do with it ... "What is it then?", - She will open her eyes in astonishment. "Dependence" - I will answer calmly. And even overcome not attempt her sarcasm and disbelief, because I know exactly the true symptoms of dependence! I know for myself ...



Somehow so it turns out that the independent woman looks, the more dependent it internally. Perhaps rightfully is the law of conservation of energy. That is ... and here, too. And according to him, which decreases - there comes ... And because impenetrable than it seems, the more vulnerable it is. What does this mean? What lies behind this?

Love and acceptance of yourself ... to the end and completely. And in our case is not love and not pleasant ... Unable to accept ourselves for what it is really internal, the woman begins to build castles in the air in the external world, trying to prove to everyone and, above all, to herself that she ... is. What it personality. What it can and what it can do. Then begins a marathon of higher education institutions in order to obtain multiple formations, strong change one after the other companies, accompanied by the rapid career growth, and with it the transformation of natural-nature in artificially-acquired system of values ​​in life. All this is done with a single purpose - that it would be noticed and appreciated. As a result, an effect, to swell to enormous size ego, growing by leaps and bounds, pride, as well as at all the off heart on the case, that would not prevent the implementation of the core mission. Next inevitably be embossed natural femininity acquired masculine qualities, whereby a woman slowly and surely turning into a man .... And, as you know, men get married ... only gays. This is the answer to almost a rhetorical question "Why so successful ... and lonely?" Naturally, we are talking about here when this whole marathon comes not from the heart and from the head. I mean, at the rate of ...



Without taking themselves inside, it starts to build up their relevance externally. Just for the sake of what would prove to all and all, it goes to the sleepless nights, cramming unnecessary wisdoms, career intrigue, and as a result, well-designed initially jumping up. Oh, that would be above and beyond all. What would have noticed. What would be appreciated.

But how deeply whatsoever shove sorry, a woman's heart, all of these in a series of completely unnecessary manipulation of his life, it still wants one ... to love. And when the next cold and lonely night, she suddenly hears it, she will have no choice how to cry softly into the pillow and throw in a corner from the latest collection of sandals Ralph Lauren, has recently been able to please her eyes on the strength of a couple of days. And the tears are pouring from the realization that their primary function in this world, it does not perform as well ... it is not love. And the off heart begins to experience a real hunger ... hunger for love. In a series of empty exhausting and achievements, it is so hungry that it is ready to accept well, if not all, then, almost everyone.



And when he comes, with a huge claim in her eyes on he inevitably throws it into a whirlpool of passion, sincerely and naively believing that here it is the same ... Love! She is looking for her closely and smoothly ... in every word, in every action, every gesture, while remaining blind where even see clearly is not necessary. She expertly finds justification for everything that does not fit into this framework, which is not so loud and sweet name of love ... She convinces herself that she felt it was her and begins to truly believe it. And because it is such an ordinary and imperfect, in her eyes is the golden areola and has rightfully try on the next title ... loud man of her dreams. There, where nature takes its, or at least tries, giving heart to her last strength insight She opposes this until recently. After all, to be in a fairy tale written by his own hand which is sweeter than to be alone again, and even face to face with the harsh reality. And even more to try to deal with it ...



And then it begins to close the circle of pain and suffering, from the mouth of which stems sticky and muddy swamp called "dependence". And how long and how would be convenient it may be to cover all sorts of excuses, while training the imagination, the need to break this vicious circle, sooner or later will still come. Otherwise, it may, until the end of life in the everyday work "to command a regiment," and dismiss the whole departments only one painting, but in a quiet Saturday night, with drooping shoulders and bowed her head to wait for him until midnight just for the fact that to warm up completely unnecessary him dinner ...