My wife ran into the room, beaming with happiness, and I just felt something was wrong.

In the modern world, the issue of childbirth for future parents is no longer a problem. Pregnancy can be planned Having consulted a doctor beforehand and having undergone a number of preliminary medical studies. Then there should be changes in the lifestyle of the expectant mother: at least it is getting rid of bad habits, and ideally also adjustment of nutrition, special physical exercises, work with a psychologist.



On the other hand, in such an important period for the family, other factors must be taken into account. Such as the age of the future mother, the financial capabilities of her and her spouse, even the political situation in the country, yes! Because it is absolutely impossible to risk the health and well-being of the child. Bringing a new life into this world, pursuing only the vain impulses of his ego, is not the best thing a person can do in our troubled times.

I am very upset, even infuriates the attitude of my wife to life. An adult, 32 years old. It would seem that she is not stupid, she has something to talk about, does not arrange tantrums out of the blue and understands some things better than me. But sometimes you look at her like this, at her statements and desires, and you just wonder. Is it because she's a woman and I'm a man and we're from different planets? Did I just, I don't know, burn out?

After the large-scale invasion of our country, life changed a lot. Everyone knows this, the whole world, practically. But do not forget that before this invasion there was an epidemic that hit both the economy of many countries and the wallets of ordinary people. Including mine. My case burned out, I somehow paid off my debts, but continued to fight. What do we do?



Peels: At that time, Gene and I were not married. Living together, yes. But I, forgive me, never really felt awe in front of some stamp in the passport. The main thing is people's feelings for each other. And do not care about the possible division of property and alimony after divorce. A competent lawyer can make a man in any case suffer very minimally, believe me. Besides, I have nothing to take. But I still had to get married. Just to stop catching that typical look of a disgruntled bride every single day.

Well, about six months after we got married, our beloved neighbor attacked our country. It's official this time. After that, a lot has changed, of course not for the better. For example, I stopped turning my nose and started working for my uncle. I swear a hundred times to myself that I would open my own business, whatever it cost me. I could not, took responsibility for his wife, for the general life and at least some prospects in the future.



My only request was that we only have a baby when everything in our lives is settled. Think for yourself, although we both work in our family, a woman's salary goes only to her needs. It's out of the question. Besides, she's not paid much money so I can claim at least some of it. We discussed this point at the dawn of our relations and I fully agree with this state of affairs.

My salary is spent on household, food, clothes and so on. In general, basic expenses. So far, you can live, but it is absolutely impossible to postpone any amount “for later”. So you have to live from paycheck to paycheck, as in student years. But there's nothing I can do about it. It's not about laziness or motivation, believe me. I just don't have that opportunity yet.



So, what news do you think my wife stunned me just a few days ago? She came to my room in the evening, smiling to the ears, her eyes shining, and she is holding something in her hand. What is it? A simple pregnancy test with a positive result. This little thing that promises us big problems in the future. And I can only guess what this is going to mean.

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Peels failed gums and birth control failed. That's what happens. To be honest, I still have vague doubts about this. But that's not even the point. I just see how Zhenya feels about all this. She wants to be a mother, you know? He wants to give birth no matter what. Despite the fact that now there is a real war. That I could be fired at any time and we would have almost no money. I can easily be sent to the front. It is not clear what will happen next. Is my wife going to raise a child without a father?

In short, on the same day, I couldn't resist. He said everything that didn't fit in my head. He did not cry, but asked firmly and confidently whether it would not be better for us, given the circumstances, to terminate this unwanted pregnancy. And in response, expectedly, I was showered with tears, screams, tantrums and accusations that I am not a man, but a monster. I should be grateful to heaven for such a fantastic gift. “A life that no matter what, has already begun in it.”



I don’t have any real friends right now. There was not enough time for them, nor the desire. So I have no one to consult with or ask for advice. But despite such obvious, in general, circumstances, I would not refuse an opinion from the outside. On condition of anonymity, of course. The Internet is big, there is plenty of room for everyone. Can you tell me if my wife and I are going to have to break up because of this? Right now, we're just not talking to each other. But time goes by quickly and soon nothing will change. What can I do in my situation, please help?