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How to set the positives of an obnoxious talker
There are no people who seem to be annoyed. babbling. Sometimes, you go quietly on the train and suddenly sit down an unrecognized writer - begins to read his opuses aloud, and meanwhile, at ten o'clock in the evening, it is time to lay down. But no, he's just gaining traction. What do you do with him?
Anna Kiryanova will help us answer this question, and we will help the entire editorial board. "Site" try to understand rules of communication The interviewer, especially when he begins to think out of business. Agree, sometimes there comes a point that you want to take a gag and help this person stop talking.
The fact is that in the early twentieth century, some psychiatrists already described this type of psychopathy as an “obnoxious talker”. But really, what is wrong with the fact that a person wants to share their emotions, talk, talk about different topics? In general, of course, it's okay if it's not three o'clock in the morning and he doesn't call you just because he likes you as an interlocutor.
Or, for example, talking about politics. Or philosophy. Topics are all rhetorical, a field unplowed for a professional talker, especially when he begins to share his own opinion on a particular issue, claiming the truth in the highest instance. Have you ever noticed how people react when such a person is expected to appear in society?
It only seems that such a person is just looking for communication, trying to find out something for himself, but in fact it all boils down to the fact that he constantly sculpts some kind of bum, despite opponents and reasonable arguments. He grabs everything. debateAll you want in those moments is for him to shut up.
It is not surprising that no arguments apply to him: hints that these arguments on the train are inappropriate are irrelevant and uninteresting. proseThe one that is given out on the mountain to unfamiliar fellow travelers is ignored. There is an opinion that these guys have absolutely no friends, because they constantly poison them with their chatter, as a result, any communication ends in a breakup.
"So what's the matter?" you'll rightly ask. People are passively aggressive towards you. He doesn't give a damn about your time, your nerves, your mood and your reluctance to communicate. You're not gonna tell him, shut up, you're sick of it! Education will not allow, and any response only doubles the flow of words. You pay attention to him, so get it!
Fellow talkers sometimes seem completely harmless people, and a dialogue can take place if you have a willingness to polemic. But often it is absolutely superfluous: the talker sees it, understands it, but continues to finish, and you may not be up to it at all. Even the head hurts, what kind of communication is there? On the contrary, I want to shout, insult...
This is why talkative people are considered psychopaths. In fact, sometimes they have to be stopped. Ask to be silent, of course, gently and good-naturedly, sometimes demand. You should not show your aggression, you do not know how a person was brought up. If your requests do not help, isolate yourself from the interlocutor in available ways, for example, put on headphones and listen to your favorite music.
Many people should learn to be tolerant of others. socialization It means mutual respect. If a person does not want to talk, he should respect this desire, because he can have clouds on his soul. It is better to leave your thoughts alone, and talkers do not hesitate to make a comment, even if it will hurt their swollen ego. Be sure to share your thoughts in the comments, every opinion is important to us.
Anna Kiryanova will help us answer this question, and we will help the entire editorial board. "Site" try to understand rules of communication The interviewer, especially when he begins to think out of business. Agree, sometimes there comes a point that you want to take a gag and help this person stop talking.
The fact is that in the early twentieth century, some psychiatrists already described this type of psychopathy as an “obnoxious talker”. But really, what is wrong with the fact that a person wants to share their emotions, talk, talk about different topics? In general, of course, it's okay if it's not three o'clock in the morning and he doesn't call you just because he likes you as an interlocutor.
Or, for example, talking about politics. Or philosophy. Topics are all rhetorical, a field unplowed for a professional talker, especially when he begins to share his own opinion on a particular issue, claiming the truth in the highest instance. Have you ever noticed how people react when such a person is expected to appear in society?
It only seems that such a person is just looking for communication, trying to find out something for himself, but in fact it all boils down to the fact that he constantly sculpts some kind of bum, despite opponents and reasonable arguments. He grabs everything. debateAll you want in those moments is for him to shut up.
It is not surprising that no arguments apply to him: hints that these arguments on the train are inappropriate are irrelevant and uninteresting. proseThe one that is given out on the mountain to unfamiliar fellow travelers is ignored. There is an opinion that these guys have absolutely no friends, because they constantly poison them with their chatter, as a result, any communication ends in a breakup.
"So what's the matter?" you'll rightly ask. People are passively aggressive towards you. He doesn't give a damn about your time, your nerves, your mood and your reluctance to communicate. You're not gonna tell him, shut up, you're sick of it! Education will not allow, and any response only doubles the flow of words. You pay attention to him, so get it!
Fellow talkers sometimes seem completely harmless people, and a dialogue can take place if you have a willingness to polemic. But often it is absolutely superfluous: the talker sees it, understands it, but continues to finish, and you may not be up to it at all. Even the head hurts, what kind of communication is there? On the contrary, I want to shout, insult...
This is why talkative people are considered psychopaths. In fact, sometimes they have to be stopped. Ask to be silent, of course, gently and good-naturedly, sometimes demand. You should not show your aggression, you do not know how a person was brought up. If your requests do not help, isolate yourself from the interlocutor in available ways, for example, put on headphones and listen to your favorite music.
Many people should learn to be tolerant of others. socialization It means mutual respect. If a person does not want to talk, he should respect this desire, because he can have clouds on his soul. It is better to leave your thoughts alone, and talkers do not hesitate to make a comment, even if it will hurt their swollen ego. Be sure to share your thoughts in the comments, every opinion is important to us.
