How to charm a companion with your politeness

First date. It is always interesting and exciting for both men and women. Some handsome people already have more than a hundred first dates, others may not have experience in this. No matter what kind of person you go to meet, everyone can make mistakes.





Today's edition. "Site" I've compiled a list of typical Cavalier mistakes. Knowing about them, you can recognize all the alarm bells on the first date.

The list of common male oversights at the first meeting will help the girl to see in a new friend rudeness and even egocentricity. For a man, this article can be a brief guide to what you should categorically avoid in your behavior.

Common Mistakes on a First Date with a Girl:

1. Too many expectations. Of course, going on a date, a man looks forward to meeting a pleasant person and hopes for a successful development of events in the future. But don’t expect that after a few hours together, you’ll start planning your future together.
   
   Let everything run its course. It is better not to throw out loud phrases and promises until you know nothing about the person. “I think you’re going to be a great mother,” is a phrase she doesn’t expect to hear on a first date.
   
   
   
   
   
   
2. Criticism
   If your hobbies board games, reading and drawing seem incredibly boring to a man, criticizing interests and preferences is a perishing business. First dates exist to get to know each other better and appreciate how comfortable you are together. It is worth trying to understand the girl and look for other points of contact, rather than starting a heated debate about tastes.
   
   
   
   
3. Mentions of old grievances
   Everyone has a negative experience behind their backs. At the first meeting, you should not enthusiastically talk about old resentments and disappointments. In this case, a romantic evening will turn into a reception with a therapist. It is logical that a potential partner after another murmur is more likely to be alert than show sympathy.
   
   
   
   
4. Self-obsession
   A good conversation is that the interlocutors are willing to listen to each other, ask questions and learn more about each other. Be careful with a man who is too enthusiastic about his achievements, not showing interest in you. He's probably trying to impress you. However, it may turn out that a person simply does not consider someone’s opinion worthy of attention.
   
   
   
   
5. Fuzzy intentions
   Everyone goes on a date with their intentions. It is good when they coincide, but misunderstandings often arise on this basis. It is best to tell each other honestly about your expectations and goals, eliminating the possibility of embarrassing disappointment.
   
   
   
   
6. Intrusiveness
   Your first date went well and you decided to meet again. But your new friend finds you on all social networks and constantly falls asleep with messages. Such intrusive behavior can erase the first positive impression, and the first date will be the last. Of course, women can make such a mistake, but in any case, stickiness is repulsive.
   
   
   
   
7. Excessive persistence
   Girls know that reasonable persistence It can be good. But when a person does not understand the word “no” and does not push away from the desires of another, the only way to get rid of such persistence is to stop all communication.
   
   
   
   

In any case, it should be remembered that many missteps on the first date can be caused by ordinary human excitement. Others may testify to a person’s bad character. Have you ever met too brave gentlemen?