That's why I don't want kids! I never want to.

One day I was riding in a compartment with a young woman and her baby. I was looking at this exhausted mommy and her screaming baby and I knew I didn’t want kids, period! The mere thought of motherhood terrified me.

Many relatives and acquaintances reproach me for selfishness and pester me with their advice, and parents just pray for grandchildren. I decided to deal with this controversial issue. One of the most important social issues on the agenda is: why do some people not want to have children?





Family without children 8 reasons

1. Lack of maternal instinct
   It is worth admitting that some women do not wake up even after 30! This is not to say that such people hate children and are disgusted with pregnancy. They just feel happy and complete without heirs.
2. Memory
   Psychologists say that the desire to have children wakes up in all girls after puberty. Amazingly, it is so instinctive that it goes unnoticed if not implemented. By the age of 25, a woman herself believes that she never wanted to become a mother.
   
   
   
   
3. Financial problems
   That's the most popular argument. When you barely make ends meet, the question of the child disappears, because medicine, healthy nutrition and good children's things are now expensive. Young couples understand that they will not pull a child, and when they succeed, they already burn out and simply do not want to change their lives.
4. Infertility
   Very often, behind the reluctance to give birth and loud statements hides a physical inability. A friend says that motherhood is definitely not for her, and then it turns out that she has been treated for infertility for several years.
   
   
   
   
5. Hard childhood
   If the girl didn't work out motherhood Or father, the reluctance to have a child is a direct consequence of childhood trauma. As a result, a negative view of motherhood in general is formed.
6. Fear of responsibility
   Among women there are such infantile persons that the role of mother for them is simply great. It is important for them to remain little girls whose whims everyone indulges. Such individuals are not ready to make decisions, take responsibility for actions and solve problems.
   
   
   
   
7. There's the wrong man.
   Sometimes giving up motherhood comes down to that. No one wants to be abandoned, let alone abandoned with a child in their arms.
8. Fear of giving birth
   The panic around this event is not without reason. The reason for this may be poor heredity, diseases, a weak body. And also one of the most common arguments is a change in appearance and figure. postpartum. Any woman has such fears, and not everyone is willing to take risks.
   
   
   
   

Share your thoughts on this. Do you think that a woman should give birth, or do you agree that this is a personal matter?