Said I wouldn't live together without a stamp, so he left me.

“I was abandoned by a man. You’ll never guess why! – with such a request "Site" Our reader, Angelina, turned. The reason is really not the most typical. But that only makes the story more interesting. What happened in the life of a woman and how she copes with loss, read further in the article.



I have been dating Andrew for over a year. Or rather, we met, because now our relationship can hardly be called healthy. At first I thought I had met the man of my dreams.



Gifts, courtship, pleasant pastime. I felt happy next to him. You could talk to Andrew about everything. He is a very kind and friendly person.

At the dawn of our relationship, I immediately said that I would not live under the same roof with a man without marriage. That's my main condition. I don't want that kind of relationship. Andrey replied that he accepted my choice and had nothing against it. We often met at each other’s houses, spent the night. It's normal for me. But living together without being married is stupid and irresponsible.



It has been about six months since we discussed this issue. We haven't had a fight since then. Seriously, it was like Andrew and I were made for each other. Deep down, I was thinking that one day I would be his wife. I truly loved him and felt the same love that came from Andrew.

But a couple of weeks ago, he kind of broke off the chain. He invited me to a romantic dinner. I did everything I could to like it. And at the end of the evening he said, ‘Honey, I was thinking, maybe we’ll move out.’ You know I can live with you. Or we can rent a new home. I'd do anything for you!

I immediately turned him down and told him that my position had not changed. I won't live with him unless there's a ring on my finger. Civil marriage is an empty, fiction. It is suitable only for windy and irresponsible people! I'll never do that in my life.



We spent the rest of the evening in silence. And I felt so hurt. We're not little kids anymore. I am 30 years old this year and he is 32. I mean, even our parents have met! God told us to have a wedding.

But no, it wasn't! Just a few days later, Andrew and I met. He walked me home and said he was not ready for a serious relationship and marriage. So how to move in without commitment, so he's ready. And to take responsibility and create a new unit of society is for the strong!



No words. But it's not over. I was just abandoned by my man. The next day, he sent a courier my things, which were left at his house. And he wrote a note: "I need time." Let's pause our relationship, I'm sorry.

It's hard to put into words how shocked I was. Only now I think that such a potential husband I do not need for nothing! Let him look for stupid girls who will be willing to sacrifice their dignity for his whims. I didn't sign up for that!

Life Wisdom: What does this story teach us? The position of the main character is clear to me. Angelina doesn’t just want to get married. She thinks the stamp on the passport gives some guarantees. Like a man, for example, will not go to another or just do not want to break up. Except it doesn't work that way.



I don't understand how you can marry someone you didn't share your life with before you got married. How can a woman know that this man is right for her? In a romantic relationship, you can be the perfect partner. At home, he becomes a completely different person. How can you test this without at least a temporary cohabitation?

I wonder how you feel about that? Do you support the position of the main character of the story?